S1E18: Part 1+2: Breaking Up with Workplace Toxicity, Nicola and Gina are Interviewed!
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Oh yeah.Speaker 2: 53:32
All these different shirts. No, that was the other Brian. That was T-shirt Brian Oh.Speaker 1: 53:37
T-shirt Brian. Oh my God, yeah, brian with the insurgents was very funny.Speaker 2: 53:41
Yeah, um, we had the lady with four million jobs. Do you remember that one Mm? hmm, i know Where she had like what was it Like? 47.Speaker 1: 53:54
Like her first. Like her first line out of the box was like I’ve had 46 jobs in the past 30 years and we’re like what.Speaker 2: 54:05
We’ve got Amy, who talks to us about toxic positivity, which is pretty cool, and then we had Stu, who was our most recent recording, yeah, talking about leadership, which I’m pretty bloody excited about.Speaker 1: 54:20
And now so we’ll be doing some more interviews, but also sprinkling in some of the research episodes.Speaker 2: 54:25
Yeah, and then we’ll be doing some research episodes is going to like is our next kind of step right? That’s our evolution.Speaker 1: 54:33
And we’ll see what happens. We’ll see what you guys like more And if you have any comments, thoughts, reactions, just reach out to us.Speaker 2: 54:39
Yeah, We really appreciate everybody’s comments. Yeah, We’ve had. I just, I just get so excited when someone comments, So if you could comment like like subscribe, share follow all those good things. Come join us on LinkedIn. Come join us on.Speaker 3: 54:55
Instagram, yeah, yeah Find us a good place.Speaker 4: 54:57
We’d be happy to have you.Speaker 2: 54:59
And we’ll see you in season two. Couple weeks, yeah, yeah, a couple weeks. Thank you for joining us today. If you would like to share your story, we would love to hear from you.Speaker 1: 55:10
Also, leaving a review helps us create more content because it shows us there’s an interest in this topic.Speaker 2: 55:16
For those of our listeners who do better with reading, we have closed caption available on YouTube.Speaker 1: 55:20
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I get into the workplace I like to [ __ ]
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honestly every time I try to do
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something fun or exciting you make it
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not that way hey are you tired of toxic
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workplaces and Nativity that comes with
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them we hear you and we’re here to shake
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things up welcome to let’s break up
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toxic workplace Stories the podcast
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that’s all about breaking up with
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workplace toxicity I’m Nicola and I’m
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here with my co-host Gina together we’re
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going to explore real life experiences
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of workplace toxicity and offer a sense
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of encouragement and unity that’s right
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we’re tackling the tough topic of
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negativity in the workplace so join us
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each week as we explore the various
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forms of toxicity in the workplace we’ll
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be interviewing guests to share their
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experiences and offer practical
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solutions for dealing with workplace
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toxicity let’s break up is quickly
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becoming the go-to source for anyone
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drama and help you break up with those
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toxic workplaces thanks for tuning in
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tell all your friends in this week’s
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oh boy oh boy we are pretty excited we
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have got a two-parter today and we’re
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just gonna get straight into it we’re
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just gonna get into the meat and
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potatoes of the entire episode because
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we have got an anonymous caller calling
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us and kind of calling us out on some of
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the things we had in our first few
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episodes so it’s actually a follow-up
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from the community and we’re going to
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get into it in a second but it is we did
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have to divide it up into two because it
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was so long that we had to um end up
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doing that okay hold on we’re letting
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our mystery person in who’s completely
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Anonymous okay gotcha gotcha gotcha love
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it I’ll be here all night we’re excited
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we are so excited to finally connect
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with you good well thanks for having me
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uh of course yeah I’ll try and do my
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best here I try to write things out to
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where they weren’t starting like so
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gossipy and like just bitching about
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your uh former workplace but
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um well if there’s like something that
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you want to like if I’m not hitting on
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the topics or you want to yeah okay
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we’ve got some Josh and I’ll actually
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share it with Gina in the
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um I’ll just share it with Gina so she
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can remember what we did jot down the
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first time around okay yeah because you
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know my [ __ ] ass probably didn’t even
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look at it the first time yeah I would
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have looked at it like 10 seconds before
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we actually had the podcast like
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happening I know I know I’m a little
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disorganized but I guess
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also depression that’s why I love you
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yes I know
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well okay well we will introduce you as
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our Anonymous person who is coming in to
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interview are we going to change her
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editing no no but also like who would
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want to listen to a podcast with a robot
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no it’s not happening okay
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we could turn her into like I don’t know
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if I could though that would take so
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much time
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but what I can do though is I can strap
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a thing I feel like we need to do like a
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hedgehog or like
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like something cute like a talking
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Hedgehog yeah yeah that would be really
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cute thank you okay
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okay thank you Nicola all right so I am
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so ready so ready for okay that
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you’re asking us questions is that rumor
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true
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I guess just like follow-up questions to
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the original episodes and some of them
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kind of intertwine with things that
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you’ve talked about in more recent
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um I’m so here for this yeah but so to
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like avoid making it like super gossipy
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and focus on like the toxic workplace
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that you were in
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um
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I guess Nicola you had mentioned if
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bullwhip I don’t know if you want to
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like touch on that I kind of researched
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what it was because I didn’t really
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understand it but there’s a there’s like
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a lot so I’m a customer of your former
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workplace or was a customer so that’s
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kind of how I was like introduced to
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your podcast because it was um posted on
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a like a community page
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and
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um
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there’s a lot of frustration within the
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customer base on how things are like
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help like dealt with and it’s definitely
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like the toxicity is trickling over
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um into the customer base so I guess
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that’s how I kind of like got involved
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with the follow-up questions but if you
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wanted to like touch on the bowl up
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effect and how that kind of affects like
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I don’t know it kind of trickled out how
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to fix the customer that’s you know what
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that’s actually I love that we’re asking
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a technical question right up front so
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Nicola can you before you go into it can
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you explain what the bull whip effect is
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because not many what I was about to do
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okay never mind yeah
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hopping ahead is it like cupping but
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hopping I don’t know I don’t know
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um okay so the boulevard perfect in
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summary
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um and I’m going to use an example of
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ice creams you have got an ice cream
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retailer and they love making ice creams
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and you’ve got a regular customer base
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that comes in to eat ice creams however
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one summer it gets very hot
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and you have extra people coming in to
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eat ice cream so they sell out really
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quickly because oh exciting these ice
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creams are the best in town so they sell
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out of the ice creams now so then what
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happens is the maker of the ice from the
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ice cream shop goes [ __ ] what if we have
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this many people again tomorrow so they
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get all of their re like all of the
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resources to make additional ice creams
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for tomorrow however that heat wave
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where people are coming in to eat the
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ice creams is only short-lived
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so now you’ve got this increase in
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products but in a couple of days you’re
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going to have a decrease in custom in
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demand yeah and then that obviously has
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a flow-on effect because now you’ve got
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a waiting time obviously for the ice
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cream boxes to arrive you’ve got time
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for the ice cream cones to arrive
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um so there’s a kind of a gap between
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the peak of these people coming in and
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that decrease again so now you have all
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this extra stock available so now you’ve
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got all these ice creams and it’s not
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the heat wave anymore so you’ve got your
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standard base customers coming in but
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you’ve got tons of stock like too much
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ice cream stock because you were
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expecting there’s not another Heat Wave
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so you can’t sell off all the stocks so
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now you have to do a sale or you’ve got
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to do something to kind of get rid of
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this additional stop next minute you’ve
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got another bloody Heat Wave and people
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are coming to eat your [ __ ] ice cream
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same thing so it’s a bullwhip so it just
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keeps yeah so that just that just
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reactive that just screams to me poor
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Planet planning or use of data
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um and inability to understand your
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customer base like in a very intimate
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way
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and I think that’s where that
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frustration came from for the customers
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is because there was no concept of that
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effect so you would have situations
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where you have a very exciting product
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launching and people are like whoa this
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is so cool oh I’m so excited but then
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you increase the amount that’s available
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for the next time and then you’ve got
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too much but the same customer base and
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it’s not as exciting I mean one of my
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main things was like we need an snlp
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planner and no like the CEO didn’t even
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know what snop was and I was like she
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was like do you know what it is can you
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do it I was like if I was an snop
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planner I would make it
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not only that but I would be like doing
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it for you that is not my expertise I I
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show how to look at the stuff I know
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what they do but I cannot do what they
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do
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um and I still to this day don’t think
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they have one even though that was
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someone’s Rock in the Eos
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stuff stop it I would say probably not
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because there’s still uh there was a
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seasonal box that launched about a month
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ago last year that I think is first like
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still on sale on the website and people
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are like what is going on with this box
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like why is it still here and they had
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it marked down like a crazy crazy price
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and they’re still stock of it and it’s
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they didn’t understand their Concepts
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they don’t they didn’t and they don’t
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because then I would be like stop
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ordering so much we don’t need this much
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we need to be more scarce than we do
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over subscribers shouldn’t be scarcity
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or over ordering
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planning you that’s the thing there was
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no planning there was Zero planning
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there was Zero time for us to be
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proactive with anything because right I
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was had a I was head of product so
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without the product there’s nothing to
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buy so how can I make a good product if
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you’re telling me 40 different things
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and conveniently forgetting something
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that you asked for and now you don’t
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want it like it was just such a [ __ ]
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hot mess yeah and it seemed like there’s
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no organization because the products
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that sold like really well like for
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example the
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that you would come up with that people
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love and still are trying to get their
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hands on they’ve never restocked or like
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attempted to restock or like what people
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I created it and I’m did too well yeah
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why would you yeah
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therapy associated with you yeah so that
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was one of my questions was like what
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this whole bullwhip effect thing it was
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and like what was going on with their
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stock because it seemed all over the
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board
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um they’ve got so much of these things
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that no one seemed to like and then
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other things like sell out and they
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don’t they’re never clear or um you know
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transparent with if they’re gonna
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restock or not and then they blame it on
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like supply issues yeah yeah
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which sometimes actually could be
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truthful right like sometimes there were
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issues with supply chain but at the same
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time like not enough to actually create
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the issues that they have
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yeah
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remember they were like airing
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everything in and not accounting for
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that in the cost of the goods yeah yeah
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or Customs yeah so there’s no I don’t
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understand how they’re profiting anyway
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yeah
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now I don’t see them like lasting much
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longer the way on their current
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trajectory but that kind of leads me
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into my next question is how like did
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the like nepotism and cronyism ever like
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come off as a red flag because I know
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you had said that it’s kind of like a
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nice way to learn kind of trial by fire
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but it seemed like as a company of this
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magnitude it seems so irresponsible to
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put like you know your husband or your
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neighbor’s best friend in charge of
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these things that really need to be
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dealt with by a true professional
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I think you know having been there for
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as long as I did I appreciate the
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opportunity that I had to kind of
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claw my way up the ladder
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um but I think yeah absolutely the
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nepotism and the cronyism was extreme
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and it still is Extreme
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um there’s a very small handful of
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people that are not like probably two in
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the entire organization that are not
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associated somehow with the core team
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and they’re not either related by law or
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genetics religious
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from the religious unity school high
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school
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is
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it Hillsong
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no idea [ __ ] zero idea and I don’t
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know because
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I did because I didn’t realize that they
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all knew each other and I would always
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go to nickel and be like
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who’s this person and should be like oh
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it’s so-and-so’s like sister-in-law’s
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friend or whatever and I was like what
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like I like it was like Beyond shocking
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to me and I like I am spiritual I
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believe that there’s something bigger
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than myself out there but I’m not
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religious so it was never anything I
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spoke to them about so I wouldn’t know
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but it wouldn’t I would have put it past
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them because I know
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so one of the things that the crr has a
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little bit of um gossipy in size
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um the one of the things that the CEO
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kept pushing on me
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um was that she followed a
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um product a similar product but it was
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run it was a religious based similar
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product and she would push on me to do
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similar marketing based off of that
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business and I was like ah yeah
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we’re not we’re not technically like
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affiliated with any Sac denomination
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organization or religion why would we do
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that thank you
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um mystery guess you were gonna say
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something what were you gonna say about
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Hillsong
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so I watched the Hillsong documentary
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and how wait where is it wait there’s a
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documentary I’m so on board where did
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you watch it uh well so I watched I
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watched two uh Pope like documentaries
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they covered Cults I watched Hillsong
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it’s probably been a year but um I think
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it was on Hulu and you know how this
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like cult-like mentality and so I was
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like okay I wonder if this stems from
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this you know mega church that’s and it
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very it very well could I think that’s a
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very good point but unfortunately I
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don’t know yeah like I I never thought
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to ask because I was still uncovering
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the ways people were related even to my
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last day
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so and it wouldn’t be something that I
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would even think to ask but I think it’s
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a very like relevant thing to point out
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because it very well could have been
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yeah and then I just watched the lularoe
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uh oh yeah documentary on Amazon which
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I’ve never purchased from lularoe but I
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was watching and I was like this
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literally I mean you could replace this
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with your former workplace and I see no
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difference there is no difference
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there is no difference because it’s now
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that it works
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right is is led by a charismatic leader
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who everyone like sucks up to but at the
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end of the day like maybe that would
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work if she actually had business Acumen
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and was a professional business person
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but the just because you have the idea
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doesn’t mean you’re automatically be
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going to be good at creating a business
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out of the idea and I keep going back to
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this you need to hire people who know
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what they’re doing so when they hired me
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it was very clear I knew what I was
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doing right Nicola like I’m not just
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blowing smoke up my ass like we’re
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honest with each other that you would
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tell me I know what I’m doing I’m
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extremely good at what I can what I do
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and I prove it every day but they didn’t
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like that why you have to ask yourself
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why because it puts them it puts their
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insecurities into the and I think they
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felt threatened like I was gonna
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actually like Shape Up and ship out the
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whole thing but how can I if I’m not the
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owner well that kind of they preach this
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you know mental health uh
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poor value but then they essentially
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bully you Gina into being someone you’re
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not and then like push you out and after
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they essentially ask you for help
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because that’s what they were doing by
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hiring you right and the fact that at my
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like 60-day review or whatever it was I
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was asked by the CEO who was half my age
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with absolutely zero
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background to have the position she has
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with like I don’t think she ever had a
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job before but yet she was my direct
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like I reported directly to her she
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asked me if I could handle it I was so
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offended
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I was like I’m sorry can I handle this
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little [ __ ] shitty company that I’ve
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never even heard of before meanwhile I’m
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interacting with like lvmh like like
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lvmh is because when you said it the
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first time like no one oh um Tennessee
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like they own everything they own like
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like Sephora like all these big big
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names they’re huge so
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um so I guess I couldn’t handle their
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Podunk company
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okay so that also leads me into another
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question they okay so I know it started
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off as kind of a one-woman show
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um
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but it’s since grown quite a bit it
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seems like but they still kind of
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operate under this guy’s of a small
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business
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like how small are they because they
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can’t be back look they don’t have more
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than let’s call it tops and I wouldn’t
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know now because I’ve been out for yeah
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you know what would your number be of
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actually employed salaried people
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employed celery people like tops maybe
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- that’s what I would say but then
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there’s a lot of other players that are
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either like influencers in the community
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that get that are involved but I don’t
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think they’re salaried because when I
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went back to them and said like hey you
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need to offer me COBRA they said we
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don’t have 20 people employed like
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that’s the law yeah and I didn’t realize
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that because
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um I had no idea who like there were so
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many PL like Cooks in the kitchen I had
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no idea who would be employed and who
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would be contracted so I was like I just
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I’d say yeah I’d say cup
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top ten top 10 tops but also I think and
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you know kind of talking about that
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small business right they would be
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huge if they knew how to manage their
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money which they do not so one of my
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topics
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one of my tasks before Gina started was
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to review the budget and to give every
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Department a budget right so I have an
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MBA I I would hope that I think
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sometimes imposter syndrome doesn’t help
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but I would hope that I kind of know
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what I’m doing
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so one of my tasks was to review the
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budget and we were literally bleeding
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money and every comment was not around
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how do we solve bleeding money it was
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like we’ve got to let people go if we’re
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bleeding this much money so I said no
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what we need to do is we need to cause
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like a static line of budgeting that is
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only for employees and employees mental
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health so that where we stop causing
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stress on people and saying we’re going
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to let people go immediately oh my God
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we can’t make all the money with the
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money and then work out where it is that
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we’re bleeding money and the key place
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we were bleeding money was shipping
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that was the first one and then the
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second one was like miscellaneous
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spending like
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weird spending where we just pressed yes
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on approve everything
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um and those were the two spots where it
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was literally just like like a sieve
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leaking out of the business so if they
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could get that under control if they
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could get that under control they would
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be not a small business anymore no they
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they could do really well they just
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don’t know how they don’t want someone
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like myself or Nicola came in and
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started like you know opening the
499
00:20:26,460 –> 00:20:31,020
curtain and saying like your vendors are
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00:20:28,679 –> 00:20:32,760
[ __ ] you can get this for cheaper you
501
00:20:31,020 –> 00:20:34,260
can make more of a profit but they don’t
502
00:20:32,760 –> 00:20:36,240
understand the difference between profit
503
00:20:34,260 –> 00:20:38,039
and revenue they don’t understand
504
00:20:36,240 –> 00:20:39,660
the idea that there’s two different
505
00:20:38,039 –> 00:20:42,539
metrics you need to look at you need to
506
00:20:39,660 –> 00:20:45,900
look at cost of goods and cost of goods
507
00:20:42,539 –> 00:20:47,580
sold gold right so they didn’t know that
508
00:20:45,900 –> 00:20:49,260
they called Everything cost of goods
509
00:20:47,580 –> 00:20:52,140
sold yeah right they called Everything
510
00:20:49,260 –> 00:20:53,700
cogs one’s a cog one is a cogs with an S
511
00:20:52,140 –> 00:20:55,020
I had to explain that to them and
512
00:20:53,700 –> 00:20:58,160
they’ve been in business for five years
513
00:20:55,020 –> 00:21:01,380
how why is this my job like
514
00:20:58,160 –> 00:21:03,120
and the fact that they never like rolled
515
00:21:01,380 –> 00:21:04,740
up the cost properly they didn’t include
516
00:21:03,120 –> 00:21:06,539
Customs they didn’t include shipping
517
00:21:04,740 –> 00:21:07,980
they didn’t includes warehousing fees
518
00:21:06,539 –> 00:21:10,080
like even if you’re just using a
519
00:21:07,980 –> 00:21:12,000
standard numeric like an average for
520
00:21:10,080 –> 00:21:14,520
warehousing fees you’re going to get a
521
00:21:12,000 –> 00:21:16,140
lot closer to the true cost of that item
522
00:21:14,520 –> 00:21:18,360
for the company so that you can put an
523
00:21:16,140 –> 00:21:21,000
adequate profit on it they just would
524
00:21:18,360 –> 00:21:22,980
slap the no the number that we would get
525
00:21:21,000 –> 00:21:24,660
from the manufacturing company like
526
00:21:22,980 –> 00:21:27,660
let’s say you approached me and said I
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00:21:24,660 –> 00:21:30,419
want 10 000 units of this item this
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00:21:27,660 –> 00:21:32,760
pencil and I said okay 10 000 units will
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00:21:30,419 –> 00:21:34,860
be 10 cents each
530
00:21:32,760 –> 00:21:36,299
um and they would just say okay 10 cents
531
00:21:34,860 –> 00:21:39,360
that’s what it cost us to have this
532
00:21:36,299 –> 00:21:42,419
pencil then they would add 65 markup on
533
00:21:39,360 –> 00:21:45,539
it meanwhile they end up losing money
534
00:21:42,419 –> 00:21:48,539
because shipping is expensive duty is
535
00:21:45,539 –> 00:21:50,640
expensive you so on and so forth if you
536
00:21:48,539 –> 00:21:52,500
if you understand basic economics right
537
00:21:50,640 –> 00:21:54,480
like let’s go I’m talking like basic
538
00:21:52,500 –> 00:21:56,100
maths essentially not even basic
539
00:21:54,480 –> 00:21:58,679
economics if you just understanding
540
00:21:56,100 –> 00:22:00,960
basic economics and I know Gina can
541
00:21:58,679 –> 00:22:04,559
elaborate this but let’s say the product
542
00:22:00,960 –> 00:22:06,000
costs ten dollars and it costs five
543
00:22:04,559 –> 00:22:08,400
dollars to ship to you from the
544
00:22:06,000 –> 00:22:10,559
manufacturer and you sell it for twenty
545
00:22:08,400 –> 00:22:13,440
dollars technically you should be making
546
00:22:10,559 –> 00:22:17,400
a five dollar profit right what happens
547
00:22:13,440 –> 00:22:21,659
though is the customer let’s say it
548
00:22:17,400 –> 00:22:23,820
costs 15 to actually get to us and then
549
00:22:21,659 –> 00:22:25,559
you miscalculated the production cost so
550
00:22:23,820 –> 00:22:27,539
it’s actually costing twenty dollars to
551
00:22:25,559 –> 00:22:29,880
get to you you’ve charged five dollars
552
00:22:27,539 –> 00:22:32,159
for shipping and now you’ve sold it so
553
00:22:29,880 –> 00:22:34,980
now you’ve sold for 25 you’re
554
00:22:32,159 –> 00:22:36,720
essentially you know selling it at a
555
00:22:34,980 –> 00:22:39,659
loss at this point which is what is
556
00:22:36,720 –> 00:22:43,980
exactly right that’s exactly right the
557
00:22:39,659 –> 00:22:46,820
ship Spain is still a huge issue
558
00:22:43,980 –> 00:22:49,980
um and no one can understand
559
00:22:46,820 –> 00:22:53,159
why they are shipping things the way
560
00:22:49,980 –> 00:22:55,440
they are I mean they so they’ve switched
561
00:22:53,159 –> 00:22:58,140
since switched to sending everything out
562
00:22:55,440 –> 00:23:00,240
in either uh padded or
563
00:22:58,140 –> 00:23:03,659
mailer
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00:23:00,240 –> 00:23:06,240
um which is yeah well they’re it is
565
00:23:03,659 –> 00:23:09,960
cheaper but they’re I mean they also
566
00:23:06,240 –> 00:23:13,320
like preach sustainability which
567
00:23:09,960 –> 00:23:17,039
please can I [ __ ] please can I go off
568
00:23:13,320 –> 00:23:19,340
on this nothing they do is done
569
00:23:17,039 –> 00:23:21,299
in an
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00:23:19,340 –> 00:23:23,480
eco-conscious whatever the word you want
571
00:23:21,299 –> 00:23:26,400
to do environmentally responsible way
572
00:23:23,480 –> 00:23:28,440
nothing and that is one of the first
573
00:23:26,400 –> 00:23:30,780
things you see on their website and I am
574
00:23:28,440 –> 00:23:33,780
here to say they are lying to their
575
00:23:30,780 –> 00:23:36,000
consumers nothing they do is
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00:23:33,780 –> 00:23:39,900
environmentally friendly when I
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00:23:36,000 –> 00:23:42,000
attempted to make changes they
578
00:23:39,900 –> 00:23:44,280
first of all I wasn’t there long enough
579
00:23:42,000 –> 00:23:46,020
to actually see the changes through but
580
00:23:44,280 –> 00:23:50,640
I had started getting them to start
581
00:23:46,020 –> 00:23:53,159
looking at FSC paper and the CEO said
582
00:23:50,640 –> 00:23:55,440
the FSC paper there’s no difference
583
00:23:53,159 –> 00:23:57,720
between the regular paper I’m like no
584
00:23:55,440 –> 00:23:59,280
there wouldn’t be FSC means it’s
585
00:23:57,720 –> 00:24:00,900
sustainably stores the paper doesn’t
586
00:23:59,280 –> 00:24:02,940
change there’s no elements in the paper
587
00:24:00,900 –> 00:24:04,980
that’s different it just you have a
588
00:24:02,940 –> 00:24:06,659
chain of custody you can understand like
589
00:24:04,980 –> 00:24:09,419
you can see that it was sustainably
590
00:24:06,659 –> 00:24:12,539
sourced from a sustainable
591
00:24:09,419 –> 00:24:15,600
um you know Forest whatever it is so
592
00:24:12,539 –> 00:24:17,520
the fact that she’s in this industry
593
00:24:15,600 –> 00:24:21,059
where paper is used
594
00:24:17,520 –> 00:24:23,120
so like in predominantly and she doesn’t
595
00:24:21,059 –> 00:24:26,760
know the difference between an FSC
596
00:24:23,120 –> 00:24:28,980
certified item that’s made of paper and
597
00:24:26,760 –> 00:24:30,900
not just goes to show you the level of
598
00:24:28,980 –> 00:24:33,179
immaturity and inexperience we’re
599
00:24:30,900 –> 00:24:35,400
dealing with
600
00:24:33,179 –> 00:24:37,140
she also thought that one of the paper
601
00:24:35,400 –> 00:24:40,140
items
602
00:24:37,140 –> 00:24:42,419
um was completely on the market that she
603
00:24:40,140 –> 00:24:45,000
made it and it was a weight of a certain
604
00:24:42,419 –> 00:24:47,179
Paper whereas that paper has been
605
00:24:45,000 –> 00:24:50,460
readily available on the market for
606
00:24:47,179 –> 00:24:52,919
centuries years and years like decades
607
00:24:50,460 –> 00:24:55,559
like way before she was born like if I
608
00:24:52,919 –> 00:24:58,679
want if I said I want x amount of weight
609
00:24:55,559 –> 00:25:01,679
of this paper to any paper supplier
610
00:24:58,679 –> 00:25:03,780
whether it’s here Israel China Vietnam
611
00:25:01,679 –> 00:25:06,179
they’d be like you got it what color you
612
00:25:03,780 –> 00:25:08,520
want it is not specialty
613
00:25:06,179 –> 00:25:12,620
also the amount of plastic shrink wrap
614
00:25:08,520 –> 00:25:12,620
and stupid packaging that I got rid of
615
00:25:13,200 –> 00:25:18,480
the everything I was like this is all
616
00:25:15,299 –> 00:25:20,640
gotta go yeah well they still uh shrink
617
00:25:18,480 –> 00:25:22,980
wrap everything uh they did get rid of
618
00:25:20,640 –> 00:25:24,539
not recycling that was me I got rid of
619
00:25:22,980 –> 00:25:25,799
the belly band and the sticker on the
620
00:25:24,539 –> 00:25:27,659
back of the items because I was like
621
00:25:25,799 –> 00:25:30,900
there’s no reason for it a it’s extra
622
00:25:27,659 –> 00:25:32,820
labor B it’s extra money and C you’re
623
00:25:30,900 –> 00:25:35,820
already printing on the box just print
624
00:25:32,820 –> 00:25:38,159
the info on the box period
625
00:25:35,820 –> 00:25:39,960
they started sending out these uh
626
00:25:38,159 –> 00:25:42,299
mailers and they’re like well it’s more
627
00:25:39,960 –> 00:25:44,460
sustainable and it’s cheaper we’re
628
00:25:42,299 –> 00:25:46,559
trying to cut down on shipping costs I’m
629
00:25:44,460 –> 00:25:48,179
like how is it cutting down on shipping
630
00:25:46,559 –> 00:25:52,500
costs when you’re replacing entire
631
00:25:48,179 –> 00:25:54,779
orders because they are coming damaged
632
00:25:52,500 –> 00:25:56,640
I also don’t think that that’s just from
633
00:25:54,779 –> 00:25:58,799
the packaging they choose I just think
634
00:25:56,640 –> 00:26:00,360
that they’re not using vendors who are
635
00:25:58,799 –> 00:26:02,700
reputable
636
00:26:00,360 –> 00:26:04,980
yeah I mean and also I can tell you
637
00:26:02,700 –> 00:26:07,860
there’s no quality assurance in place
638
00:26:04,980 –> 00:26:09,900
for quality control there is a
639
00:26:07,860 –> 00:26:13,380
particular product right now that is on
640
00:26:09,900 –> 00:26:16,320
the market that I am astounded is still
641
00:26:13,380 –> 00:26:18,840
on the market it is a known issue and
642
00:26:16,320 –> 00:26:20,400
they have not dealt with that okay
643
00:26:18,840 –> 00:26:23,279
wait do we want to still talk about
644
00:26:20,400 –> 00:26:25,500
sustainability in this company or should
645
00:26:23,279 –> 00:26:28,020
we go off on can we just cause here for
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00:26:25,500 –> 00:26:30,059
a second and remind people that if this
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podcast is something you enjoy we would
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love to hear from you you can find us on
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and subscribing really helps us feel
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validated
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Anonymous guest what would you like us
654
00:26:44,640 –> 00:26:50,400
to explain
655
00:26:46,799 –> 00:26:54,559
uh go I mean I’m good for either one I I
656
00:26:50,400 –> 00:26:54,559
am annoyed I mean the uh
657
00:26:54,840 –> 00:26:58,500
got me interested in the company because
658
00:26:56,700 –> 00:26:59,940
I kept seeing this ad on IG and I’m like
659
00:26:58,500 –> 00:27:01,260
what the [ __ ]
660
00:26:59,940 –> 00:27:03,779
and they could have just said it’s a
661
00:27:01,260 –> 00:27:06,720
[ ] paint pen it is a [ ] same
662
00:27:03,779 –> 00:27:09,240
thing goodbye thank you we will bleed
663
00:27:06,720 –> 00:27:11,039
all of the products out just FYI for
664
00:27:09,240 –> 00:27:13,799
everybody involved in this conversation
665
00:27:11,039 –> 00:27:15,960
I will bleep out all of the yeah so we
666
00:27:13,799 –> 00:27:18,120
can refer to it as whatever but
667
00:27:15,960 –> 00:27:20,640
that but remember what I talked about
668
00:27:18,120 –> 00:27:23,580
the weight of paper that the CEO thought
669
00:27:20,640 –> 00:27:25,620
she came up with
670
00:27:23,580 –> 00:27:27,480
um that’s the same concept with the
671
00:27:25,620 –> 00:27:29,820
paint pens you’re talking about she
672
00:27:27,480 –> 00:27:32,520
thought she made them from scratch
673
00:27:29,820 –> 00:27:35,520
when she absolutely didn’t and she also
674
00:27:32,520 –> 00:27:38,760
thought that they’re assembled in China
675
00:27:35,520 –> 00:27:40,620
here’s the kicker I was told by multiple
676
00:27:38,760 –> 00:27:43,200
people within the organization that the
677
00:27:40,620 –> 00:27:45,240
ink was specialty made in Italy now if
678
00:27:43,200 –> 00:27:47,340
you know anything about sourcing China
679
00:27:45,240 –> 00:27:49,200
doesn’t source so they would use a
680
00:27:47,340 –> 00:27:50,580
vendor to Source the ink and then
681
00:27:49,200 –> 00:27:52,860
assemble the pen and make the different
682
00:27:50,580 –> 00:27:55,380
components the only way you’re getting
683
00:27:52,860 –> 00:27:58,320
specialty ink from outside of China is
684
00:27:55,380 –> 00:28:00,720
by doing it yourself or having a having
685
00:27:58,320 –> 00:28:03,240
a known vendor who does specialty Inc
686
00:28:00,720 –> 00:28:06,659
ordering the ink from them shipping it
687
00:28:03,240 –> 00:28:09,480
to the assembly so I asked the vendor I
688
00:28:06,659 –> 00:28:11,340
said hey is are you guys sourcing this
689
00:28:09,480 –> 00:28:13,860
ink from Italy or anywhere else outside
690
00:28:11,340 –> 00:28:15,779
of China and they were like no
691
00:28:13,860 –> 00:28:20,340
which I know because that’s how China
692
00:28:15,779 –> 00:28:22,380
works like so like the amen the the fact
693
00:28:20,340 –> 00:28:24,779
that the product the person who was
694
00:28:22,380 –> 00:28:28,380
doing product development before me and
695
00:28:24,779 –> 00:28:31,260
the CEO and CEO didn’t understand that
696
00:28:28,380 –> 00:28:33,120
was mind-blowing they were telling me
697
00:28:31,260 –> 00:28:36,120
blue in the face no no no it’s specialty
698
00:28:33,120 –> 00:28:39,059
ink from Italy and I was like there’s
699
00:28:36,120 –> 00:28:40,679
like that that doesn’t happen I’ve been
700
00:28:39,059 –> 00:28:43,200
to China I’ve been working with China
701
00:28:40,679 –> 00:28:45,240
for you know 18 something years like I
702
00:28:43,200 –> 00:28:46,559
know for a fact that doesn’t happen and
703
00:28:45,240 –> 00:28:47,940
so they were really annoyed when I was
704
00:28:46,559 –> 00:28:48,840
like by the way it’s not sourced in
705
00:28:47,940 –> 00:28:50,820
Italy
706
00:28:48,840 –> 00:28:52,860
like who came up with a [ __ ] room are
707
00:28:50,820 –> 00:28:55,080
you dumb [ __ ] like it was probably
708
00:28:52,860 –> 00:28:57,059
the CEO and CEO like it’s so [ __ ]
709
00:28:55,080 –> 00:28:58,740
stupid what a waste of my time why do I
710
00:28:57,059 –> 00:29:01,200
have to go on like a deep dive of that
711
00:28:58,740 –> 00:29:03,000
well they can’t like be honest with
712
00:29:01,200 –> 00:29:07,700
themselves I mean they
713
00:29:03,000 –> 00:29:10,380
are just in a different package I know
714
00:29:07,700 –> 00:29:12,419
but also I would like to take a little
715
00:29:10,380 –> 00:29:14,640
aside here just for a pat on the back
716
00:29:12,419 –> 00:29:17,279
for myself and to explain how this
717
00:29:14,640 –> 00:29:19,919
company actually works so I took the
718
00:29:17,279 –> 00:29:23,159
initiative to see if any of these big
719
00:29:19,919 –> 00:29:24,659
Brands like like
720
00:29:23,159 –> 00:29:26,760
um what’s the other one
721
00:29:24,659 –> 00:29:28,740
yeah and there was one other that they
722
00:29:26,760 –> 00:29:31,799
really liked so I approached each
723
00:29:28,740 –> 00:29:33,659
individual company and said hey like
724
00:29:31,799 –> 00:29:34,980
without being prompted I was like how
725
00:29:33,659 –> 00:29:36,419
cool would it be if they could private
726
00:29:34,980 –> 00:29:38,340
label because we know their pens are
727
00:29:36,419 –> 00:29:40,020
good also I was unsure if things were
728
00:29:38,340 –> 00:29:42,299
really not toxic because they hadn’t
729
00:29:40,020 –> 00:29:44,460
been tested in the proper way to really
730
00:29:42,299 –> 00:29:46,620
claim non-toxicity
731
00:29:44,460 –> 00:29:49,980
so I was like I I would feel so much
732
00:29:46,620 –> 00:29:52,380
better having a well-known manufacturer
733
00:29:49,980 –> 00:29:54,600
private label these pens so it can like
734
00:29:52,380 –> 00:29:57,960
Aleve some of the questions that I have
735
00:29:54,600 –> 00:30:00,020
about it so two of the three said no we
736
00:29:57,960 –> 00:30:03,000
don’t private label like these are our
737
00:30:00,020 –> 00:30:05,340
trademarked whatever patented pens you
738
00:30:03,000 –> 00:30:07,860
know go f yourself and I was like okay
739
00:30:05,340 –> 00:30:10,440
said we can’t private label but we’re
740
00:30:07,860 –> 00:30:12,000
very open to doing a collaboration and I
741
00:30:10,440 –> 00:30:13,860
thought that was pretty [ __ ] amazing
742
00:30:12,000 –> 00:30:16,320
because it would have been like the the
743
00:30:13,860 –> 00:30:19,440
company we were working for there our
744
00:30:16,320 –> 00:30:21,720
packaging but with custom curated colors
745
00:30:19,440 –> 00:30:24,240
within that packaging so it would be
746
00:30:21,720 –> 00:30:26,520
like a true collaboration and nobody
747
00:30:24,240 –> 00:30:28,080
else has that hey do you think do you
748
00:30:26,520 –> 00:30:30,600
think anyone else was as excited about
749
00:30:28,080 –> 00:30:33,559
it as I was I would have been excited
750
00:30:30,600 –> 00:30:36,480
yeah nobody I would have been excited
751
00:30:33,559 –> 00:30:38,580
nobody [ ] gave a [ ] and I was
752
00:30:36,480 –> 00:30:41,100
like this is [ ] a huge [ ] deal
753
00:30:38,580 –> 00:30:42,899
I I it was mind-blowing and I was going
754
00:30:41,100 –> 00:30:44,460
through with it and I was like it was
755
00:30:42,899 –> 00:30:46,200
like pulling teeth to get anything done
756
00:30:44,460 –> 00:30:47,520
and of course it hasn’t been
757
00:30:46,200 –> 00:30:49,620
collaborated with because without me
758
00:30:47,520 –> 00:30:52,140
nothing [ __ ] good happens in the
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product side the Ridiculousness the
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ridiculous I’ve just I’ve had it I’ve
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had it like come at me come at me for my
762
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opinion well they they don’t listen to
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well it’s obviously their employees with
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any sense and they don’t listen to any
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customers who have any like remotely
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negative I listen to customers I promise
767
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I did listen to customers and I tried
768
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really hard to help I did well it
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definitely was apparent when you guys
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left because it has since really like
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gone downhill it was like Albert Lee
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apparent that’s tough yeah tell us how
773
00:31:30,960 –> 00:31:36,419
to take a moment there thanks babe the
774
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quality uh like absolutely sucks the
775
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shipping I mean the shipping is just
776
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terrible it’s an ongoing like nightmare
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I I don’t know how they’re in business
778
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can you explain how it’s a nightmare
779
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with the shipping I’m curious because
780
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obviously I knew what the shipping
781
00:31:49,020 –> 00:31:54,299
problems were a year ago yeah so things
782
00:31:52,440 –> 00:31:56,520
might have changed and I was also very
783
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important to know yeah and I was also
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very clear about how we need to be like
785
00:31:59,100 –> 00:32:02,820
yeah it costs a little bit more but we
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can shave off costs in other places but
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we need to put things in boxes because
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people care about the products and
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making custom boxes that like three
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standard sizes and then you would just
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like put it in a like a recyclable
792
00:32:15,179 –> 00:32:20,820
bubble wrap that I was designing
793
00:32:18,480 –> 00:32:23,399
none of that has happened first of all
794
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the creative director who is mediocre at
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best pooh-pooed all of the ideas because
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00:32:26,399 –> 00:32:30,779
they were not on brand I’m like oh is
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being on brand drawing like a 12 year
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00:32:30,779 –> 00:32:35,340
old little flowers okay sorry we’re
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we’re way we’re way better than that now
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like go [ __ ] yourself
801
00:32:37,220 –> 00:32:43,220
I brought the heat today I’m in a shitty
802
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mood so like I’m like wow
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I [ __ ] went off but am I wrong Nicola
804
00:32:46,740 –> 00:32:51,179
no okay no you’re not so I’m curious
805
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enough from a customer’s perspective
806
00:32:51,179 –> 00:32:55,500
what is it right now that is the pain
807
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point so I don’t know the timeline
808
00:32:55,500 –> 00:33:00,179
exactly but I noticed around this time
809
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last year
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um so I I had just signed up for this
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says I got my March um
812
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it was packaged beautifully everything
813
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was perfect nothing was damaged then I
814
00:33:11,039 –> 00:33:19,019
get my June box and it comes in like a
815
00:33:15,539 –> 00:33:21,840
refrigerator box it is so giant and then
816
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there’s like a couple of those air
817
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um air pocket things to protect it it
818
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doesn’t like fill the box but there’s a
819
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few in there and it’s just like rolling
820
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around this huge referral so it’s a box
821
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in a box right it’s
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in a bigger box yeah so that was all
823
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right because nothing was damaged but I
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was like why did they ship it in this
825
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absurdly large box that that’s nothing
826
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else that is in here so then my next
827
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order and I don’t even remember when I
828
00:33:50,760 –> 00:33:56,700
ordered next but it came in an unpadded
829
00:33:53,340 –> 00:33:59,220
mailer and everything was beat to shape
830
00:33:56,700 –> 00:34:01,440
everything had dents in it not only like
831
00:33:59,220 –> 00:34:04,260
the boxes that things came in but the
832
00:34:01,440 –> 00:34:07,500
products inside the boxes were beat up
833
00:34:04,260 –> 00:34:08,520
and that was not like my only experience
834
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that was
835
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dozens if not hundreds of people’s
836
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experience everyone was bitching on
837
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these Facebook groups
838
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um on these fake Facebook Facebook pages
839
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either run by your company or associated
840
00:34:22,619 –> 00:34:28,740
with yeah associated with
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00:34:25,379 –> 00:34:31,200
um and everyone was very unhappy but
842
00:34:28,740 –> 00:34:34,379
they and I emailed
843
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um you know customer service and
844
00:34:34,379 –> 00:34:39,960
mentioned like this doesn’t seem to be
845
00:34:36,839 –> 00:34:41,220
like effective maybe we should change it
846
00:34:39,960 –> 00:34:43,020
or maybe you should start shipping
847
00:34:41,220 –> 00:34:45,119
things in boxes again they’re like
848
00:34:43,020 –> 00:34:48,740
thanks for letting us know and nothing
849
00:34:45,119 –> 00:34:51,659
ever changed hey person
850
00:34:48,740 –> 00:34:53,879
so thankful that you reached out to us
851
00:34:51,659 –> 00:34:56,660
we don’t give a [ __ ] about your opinion
852
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[ __ ] right off
853
00:34:56,660 –> 00:35:01,980
goodbye
854
00:34:59,119 –> 00:35:05,099
yeah and instead of a heart emoji yeah
855
00:35:01,980 –> 00:35:07,800
yeah and instead of um offering to
856
00:35:05,099 –> 00:35:10,440
replace the items they said that they
857
00:35:07,800 –> 00:35:11,780
could give me like a 35 off my next
858
00:35:10,440 –> 00:35:15,119
order so
859
00:35:11,780 –> 00:35:18,240
that’s very interesting because they’re
860
00:35:15,119 –> 00:35:20,640
one of their mottos was we’ll do
861
00:35:18,240 –> 00:35:23,760
anything what was it exactly everything
862
00:35:20,640 –> 00:35:25,440
like it was a motto around
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um providing customers with the best
864
00:35:25,440 –> 00:35:29,220
service there we go lots of companies
865
00:35:27,240 –> 00:35:31,140
are like the customers 100 right all the
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time and we’ll fix it like yes that’s
867
00:35:31,140 –> 00:35:35,280
essentially what it was customer’s right
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will make it better and we’ll make it
869
00:35:35,280 –> 00:35:38,640
better for them if there’s an issue yeah
870
00:35:37,140 –> 00:35:41,520
so it’s very interesting to know that
871
00:35:38,640 –> 00:35:45,540
they did not do that yeah well it was
872
00:35:41,520 –> 00:35:48,720
interesting because it was like and it’s
873
00:35:45,540 –> 00:35:51,960
been this way on uh they had a fall
874
00:35:48,720 –> 00:35:53,400
release they where they did that uh like
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00:35:51,960 –> 00:35:56,160
fan favorite
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00:35:53,400 –> 00:35:57,900
um we bring back bring back these
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00:35:56,160 –> 00:36:01,320
products that everyone really loved but
878
00:35:57,900 –> 00:36:03,900
they miss this printed one and instead
879
00:36:01,320 –> 00:36:06,960
of sending out the right product or
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00:36:03,900 –> 00:36:10,140
refunding everyone’s money they offered
881
00:36:06,960 –> 00:36:12,480
a like a 25 percent discount on the next
882
00:36:10,140 –> 00:36:13,800
order or you could get half of your
883
00:36:12,480 –> 00:36:15,900
money back
884
00:36:13,800 –> 00:36:19,680
so here here’s what I have to say about
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00:36:15,900 –> 00:36:22,140
that is that I placed that order the
886
00:36:19,680 –> 00:36:25,260
bring back the favorite ones
887
00:36:22,140 –> 00:36:26,940
so a little a little background on that
888
00:36:25,260 –> 00:36:29,400
is that
889
00:36:26,940 –> 00:36:32,099
um I was encouraging the company listen
890
00:36:29,400 –> 00:36:35,760
we should utilize reordering it’s quick
891
00:36:32,099 –> 00:36:37,740
you don’t need a sample you
892
00:36:35,760 –> 00:36:39,839
um if it’s an exact reorder you’re good
893
00:36:37,740 –> 00:36:43,560
to go so they were like that’s a great
894
00:36:39,839 –> 00:36:46,020
idea right okay so they asked me what’s
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00:36:43,560 –> 00:36:48,420
the timeline looking for if we do a
896
00:36:46,020 –> 00:36:51,060
reorder so in my head I’m thinking we’re
897
00:36:48,420 –> 00:36:53,579
going to reorder like five skus maybe 10
898
00:36:51,060 –> 00:36:57,720
skus Max because that’s the standard
899
00:36:53,579 –> 00:36:59,880
that’s a standard you do okay so the CEO
900
00:36:57,720 –> 00:37:02,460
is supposed to give me the order so
901
00:36:59,880 –> 00:37:05,040
she’s late I’m giving me the order when
902
00:37:02,460 –> 00:37:09,839
I open the order it is literally over
903
00:37:05,040 –> 00:37:12,300
200 skus literally it took me a full day
904
00:37:09,839 –> 00:37:14,540
to get all the purchase orders out to
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00:37:12,300 –> 00:37:18,060
the different vendors then I was
906
00:37:14,540 –> 00:37:19,380
chastised when I was told when I told
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00:37:18,060 –> 00:37:21,359
them listen we’re not going to make the
908
00:37:19,380 –> 00:37:24,960
enhance date like there’s no possible
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00:37:21,359 –> 00:37:27,540
way and I was told and then the CEO went
910
00:37:24,960 –> 00:37:29,700
around me to the vendor bullied him into
911
00:37:27,540 –> 00:37:30,359
saying something different didn’t tell
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00:37:29,700 –> 00:37:32,400
me
913
00:37:30,359 –> 00:37:34,020
and then I was told why didn’t I come up
914
00:37:32,400 –> 00:37:36,060
with a solution does anyone have
915
00:37:34,020 –> 00:37:38,880
anything to say about that how is it my
916
00:37:36,060 –> 00:37:40,560
problem when a you are I’m going from
917
00:37:38,880 –> 00:37:43,200
thinking one thing then I open this
918
00:37:40,560 –> 00:37:45,060
[ ] [ ] and it’s literally 200 skus
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00:37:43,200 –> 00:37:46,920
and I know there’s no way in the
920
00:37:45,060 –> 00:37:49,260
production industry that you can make
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00:37:46,920 –> 00:37:50,760
that in 10 days and then get it on a
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00:37:49,260 –> 00:37:53,880
boat even if we’re shipping with the
923
00:37:50,760 –> 00:37:55,380
fast service right how but yet somehow
924
00:37:53,880 –> 00:37:58,140
it was my fault that I didn’t give them
925
00:37:55,380 –> 00:37:59,099
a solution in what world is that is that
926
00:37:58,140 –> 00:38:01,579
okay
927
00:37:59,099 –> 00:38:04,700
I would actually like feedback
928
00:38:01,579 –> 00:38:06,960
crickets uh we’re not shipping space
929
00:38:04,700 –> 00:38:09,180
Specialists we’re not shipping crickets
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00:38:06,960 –> 00:38:12,359
no but that I think that is a great
931
00:38:09,180 –> 00:38:14,880
indication of what the unrealistic
932
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expectations and demands were of this
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company excuse me can we Circle back to
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unrealistic expectations can we please
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[ __ ] Circle back to unrealistic
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expectations I just want to reiterate
937
00:38:24,300 –> 00:38:30,420
like 200 skus two [ __ ] hundreds I’m
938
00:38:28,200 –> 00:38:33,660
gonna reiterate this I’m going to take
939
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that and I’m going to say let me tell
940
00:38:33,660 –> 00:38:38,820
you about unrealistic expectations there
941
00:38:36,599 –> 00:38:40,220
was a particular product that we were
942
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going to create
943
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specifically for our staff
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we’re gonna stop right here this is the
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end of part one and we would love for
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you to head over to part two we’re gonna
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release it tomorrow morning so please
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get ready we are going to continue this
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conversation and tell you more about the
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unrealistic expectations that were
951
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placed on us
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honestly every time I try to do
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something fun or exciting you make it
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not that way hey are you tired of toxic
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them we hear you and we’re here to shake
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we’re tackling the tough topic of
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negativity in the workplace so join us
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forms of toxicity in the workplace we’ll
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gonna get straight back into it we will
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rewind just a little bit so that you
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know what’s coming up and kind of go
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straight into it from there
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crickets uh we’re not shippings best
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Specialists we’re not shipping crickets
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no with that I think that is a great
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indication of what the unrealistic
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expectations and demands were of this
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company excuse me can we Circle back to
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unrealistic expectations can we please
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[ __ ] Circle back to unrealistic
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expectations I just want to reiterate
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like 200 skus
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and I’m going to say let me tell you
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about unrealistic expectations there was
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a particular product that we were going
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to create specifically for our staff we
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had planned because each team in the
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organization was a particular color so
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you guys find the color okay it just
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made it easier to see really on the on
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the strategy and then was just adopted
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and that’s kind of how it happened
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anyway so each team had a color
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and we thought as a nice way to make
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like bring mental health home to the
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staff is we would make these bundles
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specifically for your color part of that
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was we want to promote the product to
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our staff so that they’re using the
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product and we would specifically make
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the kind of let’s say core product in
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the team colors there are four colors we
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were supposed to oh because there’s only
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tops 20 employees we were only supposed
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to order 50.
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of each color someone [ __ ] up and
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ordered five thousand I know exactly who
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did that I know you did that you’re
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fired I had four days to work out how to
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sell those and this person who made that
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huge mistake didn’t lose their job nor
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oh I think that’s something not the last
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mistake that was not the first nor was
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it the last no and I from what I like to
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say that the product plan that I
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delivered within four days four days I
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think tops I ended up pushing it out
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another couple of days so let’s call it
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a week let’s call it a week tops but
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within a week I had a sales plan I had a
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way to kind of offload all of the
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product
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and I coupled it with a particular like
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online service as well to make it extra
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impactful in one week I think that’s
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impressive and I think I think our
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mysterious yes no it’s exactly which
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products we’re talking about it was like
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a big because the C CEO had panicked
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about the fact that we had now all of
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the stock that we needed to sell and
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literally gave me a week so I worked
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probably 20 hours a year the best way to
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fix that kind of thing when somebody
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makes a huge issue like somebody here’s
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the thing though this person would order
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it but the CEO would have to pay it so
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between those two [ __ ] idiots neither
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of them noticed that they were five
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thousand instead of 50. so everyone has
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her to play in that from the product
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side how does that happen
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how does that [ __ ] happen I don’t
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understand I don’t know I think I did I
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think given the I I feel like mysterious
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guest knows that because they know the
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product I feel like considering now that
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you know I only had a week to deliver
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that entire like set that entire Suite
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of things
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I feel like I did pretty okay honestly
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it was Flawless it seemed very
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intentional in that like it was planned
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so yeah thanks babe that’s why I’m good
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at my job and that was nothing my
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[ __ ] little violin yes but so um the
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best way to fix that kind of major [ __ ]
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up is to let go of the person who made
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the major [ __ ] up
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but here’s my theory on that if the CEO
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had to pay out on it and she missed the
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[ __ ] up she can’t let go of someone
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because she has a responsibility in that
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[ __ ] up too so if she lets go the
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product person who was ordering that
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then she you know that would be
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hypocritical that’s probably what
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happened it seems like there’s a lack of
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responsibility I mean definitely from
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the top down because they are constantly
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you know blaming things on oh we’re a
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small business and we’re a small team
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and we’re still learning how to do this
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and you know there’s no accountability
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taken they don’t come back and say like
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hey we did mess up and we’re gonna try
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and like fix this there’s just they like
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cover all you know bad press or if
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anyone tries to criticize or make
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suggestions on how to change things they
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just delete or censor it and move on I
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raised a lot of times that we needed a
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PR plan if something goes bad
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um and that’s what because I said that’s
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a huge strategical organizational risk
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that really concerns me it’s the one
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thing that keeps me up at night is if
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something goes wrong what do we do and
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there was no business continuity
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planning there was no what do we do in
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an emergency specifically around PR
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um so it was just for me there was like
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a huge contention points is um but but
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also everything was a problem like
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everything was a fire so it was like a
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continual so I kind of liken it like we
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know we have to do something but we
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can’t get to that point because we’re so
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busy with everything else that we have
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to [ __ ] get through but I mean well
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that’s exactly what it was
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instead of like focusing on how they can
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improve their like too busy spying on a
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like a private can we talk about that oh
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my God can we please talk about that
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okay I that was me that was me spying
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well not this most recent oh no no no
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we’ll come we’ll come back to that but
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yeah so
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something that was really important to
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me was the negative feedback and I felt
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that we can’t make improvements or
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change the way that we deliver things if
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we don’t have the full picture and we
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can’t make things better for people
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again if we don’t have the full picture
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so absolutely did we spy on that group
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because the best information was coming
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out of that group and the best way to
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deal with like to get ahead of shipping
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issues or to get ahead of manufacturing
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faults or like all of these things
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to get a hit of it it would be better
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for us to know the full picture however
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that then got taken to a whole nother
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level
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where the entire
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of Gina’s team tried to see themselves
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into that
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for alternate purposes
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more so to feedback issues or like and
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not use it to not use it for the greater
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good but use it to kind of feed this
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um
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I don’t know kind of like feed this kind
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of gossipy culture right and we were
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like no we can summarize like our job we
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can summarize this information and the
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feedback from our customers and give you
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the summarized version you don’t need
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all the details like we love the details
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but we will give you the summarized
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version
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now what was really interesting is if
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there was something really big coming
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through I would go to the CEO and say
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hey something Big’s coming up be aware
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strap yourself in what I found out after
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maybe the first three times of doing
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that
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um was that she would instantaneously
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knee-jerk reaction something that would
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go totally off to one person just one
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person needed to say something super
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negative and then I would have to change
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an entire marketing plan to suit that
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one person who’s commented something
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negative
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and I’m like no that’s not the point no
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no you have to change it because
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obviously people aren’t happy I’m like
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one person is unhappy and they’re just
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noisy so all good right it’s like you
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can’t please all the people all the time
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no and then we’d have to change like
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we’ve been working you know weeks on
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something and then we’d have to change
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it within hours she would do the same
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thing with product too and I’m like the
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shit’s already in the warehouse
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we can’t do anything about it at this
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point we should have checked it they
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should have been quality control first
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can I can I take a little side note on
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quality control please the timing from
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when the request would come from the CEO
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or CEO to the time they expected it to
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be in a United States Warehouse gave us
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absolutely zero time to do quality
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control and that’s not how I roll so my
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whole thing was I wanted to start
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scheduling out six months in advance
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which at best they were doing two months
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which is in in production it’s it’s
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always going to be super [ __ ] tight
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so I was getting us to that point but
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then I resigned oh no I’m sorry I was on
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um anyway so okay so coming back to the
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the seated information so Gina’s team
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then started seeding their own
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thing that they were doing in that group
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by that point I’d left so don’t know
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what unfolded from that point onwards
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what happened most recently was someone
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who followed you on your you know own uh
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social platform
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um caught wind of the podcast and just
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put it in this group that was not
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specifically associated with your former
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workplace but was basically this whole
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thing it was a location because I know
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the group I know which group we’re
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talking about it basically a Facebook
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group where people could openly Converse
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about not just one brand but many brand
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issues yes okay exactly yeah um so what
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happened there because I think I I
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didn’t understand it like I was getting
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it second hand from Nicola and I was
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like so confused I kind of understood
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what happened but I kind of also didn’t
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understand because we said Gina and I
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said it was like the USSR looks like
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we’d gone back to the Cold War it was
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weird
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so yeah so this one person caught one of
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your podcast said uh you know this is
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really eye-opening I think I’m
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personally gonna take a step back from
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this company
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um if anybody else wants to give it a
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listen go ahead I’m not going to get
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into specifics I think we can all pretty
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like uh come to the conclusion about
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like what company they’re referring to
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um
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but I’m just going to leave this here
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for anyone who wants to listen so a
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bunch of people
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um listen and we’re like oh my gosh
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that’s like I had no idea this is really
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eye-opening and this like makes sense as
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to why we’re seeing the things we’re
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seeing on the consumer side well whoever
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was like seated in that group to spy on
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everyone
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took it back to headquarters and they
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sent a personal email I think it was
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directly from like one of the top
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members either the CEO or the CEO and
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basically said that you know you guys
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are disgruntled employees and uh to pay
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no mind and they were
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they said it in a way that was
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threatening but they
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didn’t threaten anything it was almost
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like they were threatening to like
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Blacklist them
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but the exactly a customer
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yeah so it was very strange engineering
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our information
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yes it doesn’t name which doesn’t name
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them which so here’s what here’s I call
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that a tell they’re scared yes because
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we’re actually speaking the truth and
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people can now put the connect the dots
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and be like that’s why this is so [ __ ]
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up
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but they don’t take up accountability
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for anything they don’t say wait let me
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stop for a second
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have we really created a toxic workplace
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can we make it better for our employees
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because their idea is fantastic right on
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paper it’s fantastic they should be
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killing the game but they’re not because
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they can’t get out of their own way
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yes and it’s now the toxicity is like
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trickled into but that letter whatever
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email they sent shows their [ __ ]
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toxicity like that’s their true colors
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right yeah
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and how [ __ ] up is it to like admit
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you have a spy in this private Facebook
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group and then to single out this one
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person and like reach out to them
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instead of I don’t know saying something
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to your whole customer base like hey
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this is what’s being said and this is
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how we’re gonna improve it it’s like
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because because we’re speaking the truth
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mystery guess so they can’t dispute it
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so what they have to do is point the
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finger at us that we’re disgruntled let
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me tell you my decision to resign was
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the best thing I could have ever done
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and their stupidity in business by then
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firing me and then giving me Severance
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which I was never entitled to I wasn’t
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even there long enough that just goes to
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show you how stupid they really are when
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it comes to True business acumen
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I’ve never felt better it was like a
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weight off like yes I was like reeling
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from it because I was like starting to
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get down the rabbit hole two days later
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I was [ __ ] killing it doing something
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else like I’m sorry I am not disgruntled
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I am relieved yeah I’m gruntled I would
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say that I was horribly depressed
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because we were talking about this
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Amelia where I believed I strongly
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believed that these people were my
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friends I believed that that’s your
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first mistake
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you’re right I know that that was my
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first mistake but I believe that these
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people were my friends I believed that
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there was some modicum of decency which
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I was blindsided by because I didn’t
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get that well
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the frustration like you know they’re so
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big on Mental Health which is laughable
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in itself no they’re not absolutely yeah
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luxury good to a you know uh struggling
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like
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yeah Community who most are probably in
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some sort of like Financial Peril
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um and then they’re just like can they
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continue to like Target them and exploit
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them you know for and I think that was
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my biggest regret that I didn’t that I
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because like the narrative the COO spins
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is compelling right like this whole idea
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started because it helped her yeah and
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she has you know she has some issues
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that it helped her work through fine
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The Narrative is super compelling and it
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got me
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but one of the first things that one of
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my first realizations was the fact that
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at one of the main meetings with all the
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department heads
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one of the c-suite people I couldn’t
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can’t remember it was the cor CEO said I
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don’t think we should ask about mental
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health to our like direct reports like
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it takes too much time
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or something to that
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you know wait that’s okay so we had
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Matrix that we had to report on weekly
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and I said when we were creating the
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Matrix I said if we’re going to preach
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that we are a mental health focused
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organization then we need a metric that
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measures how we discuss mental health
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with our staff
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we need to walk the talk right we need
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to show that we are delivering what we
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believe right
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has your mental health this week it’s
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like I’m not going to tell you how my
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mental health is this week because I’m
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expecting the message so and if I tell
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you something negative it’s going to be
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completely dismissed anyway because the
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level of toxic positivity within the
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organization there it is means that you
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cannot be negative oh I’m sorry let me
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tell you that I’ve been working 20 hours
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a day for the last seven days because
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you don’t give me any opportunity to
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take time off and when I do take time
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off you’re literally messaging me from
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morning to night like tell me even even
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if you would say something like to to
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like say you know I’m really not happy
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with how XYZ was handled they would just
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be like Oh I’m sorry to hear that like
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there wouldn’t actually be resources
443
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given there wouldn’t be camaraderie like
444
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it was just very like a tick off like
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Nichola said and the fact that they you
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know that was one of the probably last
447
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things I was there for the fact that
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they were or like let’s do away with it
449
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I think it speaks volumes I mean on one
450
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hand it was probably a good idea to do
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away with it because nobody ever really
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spoke about it in real life like
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you’re not speaking about it right so it
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was like we were forced to always say oh
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no everything’s great fine fine fine but
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I mean that’s what the how they pretty
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much handled everything that’s
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everything in their like IG and or any
459
00:19:12,419 –> 00:19:16,500
socials like everything’s great
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everything’s fine and then they it’s I
461
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don’t know the whole company is
462
00:19:18,660 –> 00:19:22,559
exhausting I feel I could go off in a
463
00:19:20,460 –> 00:19:24,960
tangent but it is exhausting can you
464
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imagine actually working there every day
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no no I can’t and my consumer is
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exhausted
467
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yeah I well between like the release you
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know they say that they had come out
469
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like a while back and said we have four
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releases for transparency and for like
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everyone’s like anxiety and mental
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health whatever we do you know four
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quarterly releases essentially with the
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main products
475
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um and now they’re at they release
476
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something like every other week and I
477
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rather any revenue revenue
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yeah
479
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and I’m like how is this
480
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effective or productive to release this
481
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one product
482
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like this week and then a whole like
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line of things the next week
484
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right like you mentioned earlier mystery
485
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guest
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um you mentioned earlier where you said
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um you know a lot of these people are
488
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not financially in a place where they
489
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can buy these luxury products and now
490
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they’re so into the Kool-Aid and they’re
491
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so drinking the Kool-Aid that they’re
492
00:20:27,840 –> 00:20:32,460
spending money that they don’t have
493
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which was a big contention for me as
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well
495
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um is they’re spending this money that
496
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they don’t have to be part of that
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community
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yes and like the limited edition
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products and they create like this Panic
500
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buying and then they’re not transparent
501
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with
502
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um you know pricing ahead of time and
503
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they give you like a day notice that
504
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they’re launching like these big things
505
00:20:51,840 –> 00:20:57,179
and there’s just a lot of I think
506
00:20:54,840 –> 00:21:00,059
there’s an argument to be had saying
507
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that they’re selling tactics
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are detrimental to the community that
509
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they say they’re representing and trying
510
00:21:04,020 –> 00:21:07,559
to help I think there’s a big argument
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there
512
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um in their defense though I think again
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they lack the maturity and understanding
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of the just to understand like market
515
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research might be helpful
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um getting people who have an actual
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wholesale background and selling like
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getting the right people in the right
519
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places that’s what one of the things
520
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that they’re attempting to do but then
521
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when they have the right person in the
522
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right place they don’t really want it so
523
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how can that be a non-toxic workplace I
524
00:21:34,919 –> 00:21:39,600
just I don’t understand like I listen
525
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they do their own thing I’m entitled to
526
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my opinions they’re entitled to call me
527
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a disgruntled employee it’s fine it was
528
00:21:44,100 –> 00:21:49,320
not a fit on both ends 100 they need to
529
00:21:47,820 –> 00:21:51,299
do a little self-reflection because that
530
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was my biggest thing like when I finally
531
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like stopped working there nine to five
532
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or really it was like eight to eleven
533
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every day
534
00:21:57,659 –> 00:22:02,820
yeah I realized how exploitative they
535
00:22:00,480 –> 00:22:05,400
were being of this community and I was
536
00:22:02,820 –> 00:22:09,240
disgusted you were eight to eleven I was
537
00:22:05,400 –> 00:22:10,919
3 A.M to like 11 p.m yeah I mean
538
00:22:09,240 –> 00:22:13,860
I could have been the same but I just
539
00:22:10,919 –> 00:22:16,320
had some form of boundaries
540
00:22:13,860 –> 00:22:19,200
um yeah but if I didn’t if I didn’t then
541
00:22:16,320 –> 00:22:22,679
it was consistent like it was literally
542
00:22:19,200 –> 00:22:24,840
like boom boom boom boom boom yeah no I
543
00:22:22,679 –> 00:22:27,059
know I mean slack is like it’s still
544
00:22:24,840 –> 00:22:29,580
like I still hear it and I’m like I know
545
00:22:27,059 –> 00:22:31,860
I I literally you and I use slack and
546
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I’m like I barely go on it because I
547
00:22:31,860 –> 00:22:37,200
barely go on it where I I see it and I’m
548
00:22:34,320 –> 00:22:39,360
like oh no that’s my biggest gripe with
549
00:22:37,200 –> 00:22:41,760
the company is like just say you’re here
550
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to sell you know stationary products
551
00:22:41,760 –> 00:22:45,780
like don’t say that you’re a mental
552
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health company because you don’t treat
553
00:22:45,780 –> 00:22:50,280
your customers
554
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or your employees like they have any
555
00:22:50,280 –> 00:22:55,320
sort of like value when it comes to that
556
00:22:52,919 –> 00:22:59,100
they don’t and one of their core values
557
00:22:55,320 –> 00:23:02,880
was the company before before yourself
558
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but if the company is like is
559
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mismanaging bleeding money what kind of
560
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threatening employees that if you’re
561
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bleeding money instead of looking into
562
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why are we bleeding money we’re
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threatening employees mental health
564
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instability by saying we’ve got to let
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people go
566
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because we hired someone who’s too
567
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expensive too expensive which was me and
568
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I even took I even took a cut I don’t
569
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know I don’t know where does the company
570
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like that go
571
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I think that they started the company
572
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with a noble idea but then it got
573
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perverted
574
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for sure yeah I’m curious to know what
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other questions you have mystery guest
576
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of mysteryness mystery yeah I think you
577
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covered the stealing I haven’t heard it
578
00:23:41,340 –> 00:23:47,039
but you pre-recorded it we did so we can
579
00:23:44,460 –> 00:23:47,940
we can cover some of that now well it
580
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was
581
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um how did it happen twice and why was
582
00:23:50,100 –> 00:23:56,760
the CEO on Instagram
583
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balling begging for her money back when
584
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it seems like she could have just not
585
00:23:58,559 –> 00:24:02,400
fulfilled the order there’s so much to
586
00:24:01,020 –> 00:24:04,140
unpack here
587
00:24:02,400 –> 00:24:05,820
um I remember the day that this happened
588
00:24:04,140 –> 00:24:08,340
so clearly
589
00:24:05,820 –> 00:24:12,299
um because it was just one of those
590
00:24:08,340 –> 00:24:15,480
um one of those big moments where every
591
00:24:12,299 –> 00:24:16,620
time one of these big things happened
592
00:24:15,480 –> 00:24:18,900
um
593
00:24:16,620 –> 00:24:20,220
there would be something going on in my
594
00:24:18,900 –> 00:24:23,159
personal life
595
00:24:20,220 –> 00:24:26,640
so I had taken the day off
596
00:24:23,159 –> 00:24:29,039
and I was driving through the beautiful
597
00:24:26,640 –> 00:24:32,700
New Zealand Environ
598
00:24:29,039 –> 00:24:35,580
um and I was driving to a a city um like
599
00:24:32,700 –> 00:24:38,580
three hours away and I got a panicked
600
00:24:35,580 –> 00:24:39,659
telephone call from the CEO saying oh my
601
00:24:38,580 –> 00:24:41,880
God you’re not going to believe what’s
602
00:24:39,659 –> 00:24:45,120
happened yada yada yada and I had to
603
00:24:41,880 –> 00:24:50,280
pull over and have a look at what she
604
00:24:45,120 –> 00:24:53,159
was sending me so I I pulled over
605
00:24:50,280 –> 00:24:56,940
I had a look what had happened was
606
00:24:53,159 –> 00:24:59,460
absolutely there was an issue around the
607
00:24:56,940 –> 00:25:03,120
code that was used and this person was
608
00:24:59,460 –> 00:25:05,220
able to order and what’s really crazy is
609
00:25:03,120 –> 00:25:07,260
I still have the screenshot of it and it
610
00:25:05,220 –> 00:25:10,140
was close on forty thousand dollars
611
00:25:07,260 –> 00:25:12,780
worth of product for maybe like
612
00:25:10,140 –> 00:25:14,520
eight bucks eight bucks shipping
613
00:25:12,780 –> 00:25:17,820
and it was absolutely a flaw in the
614
00:25:14,520 –> 00:25:19,320
system and because at that point I
615
00:25:17,820 –> 00:25:21,120
wasn’t responsible I don’t think I was
616
00:25:19,320 –> 00:25:23,039
responsible for the codes at that point
617
00:25:21,120 –> 00:25:24,419
but I think it was that day where I said
618
00:25:23,039 –> 00:25:26,640
look I’ll be responsible for the codes
619
00:25:24,419 –> 00:25:27,779
hand them over we’re not letting that
620
00:25:26,640 –> 00:25:30,299
happen again
621
00:25:27,779 –> 00:25:32,100
it was two shipment orders and I know I
622
00:25:30,299 –> 00:25:34,200
asked Gina about this I’m like talk to
623
00:25:32,100 –> 00:25:35,700
me about what forty thousand dollars
624
00:25:34,200 –> 00:25:37,799
worth of product would look like showing
625
00:25:35,700 –> 00:25:39,539
up at your house it’s like three full
626
00:25:37,799 –> 00:25:42,240
pallets and people don’t understand how
627
00:25:39,539 –> 00:25:44,039
big palettes are it’s like that would
628
00:25:42,240 –> 00:25:47,100
take up like your whole garage if you
629
00:25:44,039 –> 00:25:49,340
have a gap absolutely okay so there’s a
630
00:25:47,100 –> 00:25:52,380
person bought this
631
00:25:49,340 –> 00:25:54,000
and we were able to shot so it was two
632
00:25:52,380 –> 00:25:55,799
shipments that were able we were able to
633
00:25:54,000 –> 00:26:00,000
stop the two shipments
634
00:25:55,799 –> 00:26:04,020
now we contacted the person they were a
635
00:26:00,000 –> 00:26:06,179
person that provided their own code for
636
00:26:04,020 –> 00:26:08,820
monetary gain
637
00:26:06,179 –> 00:26:10,799
um and we shut that down quick smart
638
00:26:08,820 –> 00:26:13,080
um I’ve seen them in a couple of the
639
00:26:10,799 –> 00:26:15,179
groups still kind of touting the
640
00:26:13,080 –> 00:26:17,820
products that they have purchased in the
641
00:26:15,179 –> 00:26:19,980
past but we essentially blacklisted that
642
00:26:17,820 –> 00:26:21,480
person because that’s not cool right I
643
00:26:19,980 –> 00:26:23,340
mean and that’s the only time someone
644
00:26:21,480 –> 00:26:25,860
should be blacklisted well for sure
645
00:26:23,340 –> 00:26:28,440
functional [ __ ] like that not because
646
00:26:25,860 –> 00:26:31,200
you’re sharing a link for yeah mental
647
00:26:28,440 –> 00:26:34,260
employees so
648
00:26:31,200 –> 00:26:36,840
um when I kind of deep dived a little
649
00:26:34,260 –> 00:26:37,620
bit deeper into it
650
00:26:36,840 –> 00:26:40,140
um
651
00:26:37,620 –> 00:26:42,360
we had stopped the shipment so the
652
00:26:40,140 –> 00:26:46,080
shipment was replaced um I think we’d
653
00:26:42,360 –> 00:26:48,120
lost maybe three grand on recouping
654
00:26:46,080 –> 00:26:49,740
costs like just recruit recouping and
655
00:26:48,120 –> 00:26:51,360
making sure that the products were
656
00:26:49,740 –> 00:26:54,419
delivered
657
00:26:51,360 –> 00:26:55,740
um so not a huge loss but still a bit of
658
00:26:54,419 –> 00:26:58,140
a loss
659
00:26:55,740 –> 00:27:00,360
um and that person we reached out to
660
00:26:58,140 –> 00:27:03,720
them and said hey
661
00:27:00,360 –> 00:27:06,299
not cool mates with hey
662
00:27:03,720 –> 00:27:08,220
heart not cool because we don’t like
663
00:27:06,299 –> 00:27:11,460
conflict
664
00:27:08,220 –> 00:27:13,440
um and they actually responded in a
665
00:27:11,460 –> 00:27:15,299
really shitty way to be honest like I
666
00:27:13,440 –> 00:27:17,580
will take I will take that one no one
667
00:27:15,299 –> 00:27:19,559
was really shitty they responded who
668
00:27:17,580 –> 00:27:21,419
responded shitty the person the person
669
00:27:19,559 –> 00:27:23,940
that tried to steal the steal the
670
00:27:21,419 –> 00:27:25,980
products they got the code so wait what
671
00:27:23,940 –> 00:27:28,860
did they say I need to know I wasn’t
672
00:27:25,980 –> 00:27:31,740
here for any of this so they responded
673
00:27:28,860 –> 00:27:33,840
back with essentially well you guys are
674
00:27:31,740 –> 00:27:35,640
a bunch of [ __ ] idiots for not
675
00:27:33,840 –> 00:27:39,240
sorting out that code which I mean he’s
676
00:27:35,640 –> 00:27:41,340
not wrong he’s not wrong he or she are
677
00:27:39,240 –> 00:27:42,320
not wrong and
678
00:27:41,340 –> 00:27:46,020
um
679
00:27:42,320 –> 00:27:47,580
adding good human being if they saw that
680
00:27:46,020 –> 00:27:49,440
they should have brought it to the
681
00:27:47,580 –> 00:27:51,240
company your attention oh for sure for
682
00:27:49,440 –> 00:27:53,580
sure like you shouldn’t have exploited
683
00:27:51,240 –> 00:27:56,220
it don’t exploit it and luckily we
684
00:27:53,580 –> 00:27:59,220
called it but the response was really
685
00:27:56,220 –> 00:28:02,580
shitty like the response was rough like
686
00:27:59,220 –> 00:28:04,820
it was like oh someone get the aloe vera
687
00:28:02,580 –> 00:28:04,820
cream
688
00:28:05,100 –> 00:28:10,860
um a little bad but it was very much
689
00:28:08,400 –> 00:28:11,880
around yeah well tough like for you
690
00:28:10,860 –> 00:28:13,260
idiots
691
00:28:11,880 –> 00:28:15,779
um I’ll just wait for my order thank you
692
00:28:13,260 –> 00:28:19,559
why are you canceling us so why is the
693
00:28:15,779 –> 00:28:21,860
CEO going on Instagram though like
694
00:28:19,559 –> 00:28:25,520
crying
695
00:28:21,860 –> 00:28:29,820
jerk reaction
696
00:28:25,520 –> 00:28:32,880
also emotional manipulation
697
00:28:29,820 –> 00:28:35,460
of her consumer base no do you know how
698
00:28:32,880 –> 00:28:38,400
many times that you’re like I okay I
699
00:28:35,460 –> 00:28:41,400
actually made a really funny marketing
700
00:28:38,400 –> 00:28:43,740
campaign for that situation I made a it
701
00:28:41,400 –> 00:28:45,960
was hilarious like I had this whole
702
00:28:43,740 –> 00:28:48,360
thing where we just like played into it
703
00:28:45,960 –> 00:28:50,310
and we had like
704
00:28:48,360 –> 00:28:54,620
um we had a cat burglar
705
00:28:50,310 –> 00:28:58,020
[Laughter]
706
00:28:54,620 –> 00:28:59,760
okay we’re gonna restock that particular
707
00:28:58,020 –> 00:29:02,220
product but it was like a cat burglar
708
00:28:59,760 –> 00:29:04,080
like hoarding all of that it was very I
709
00:29:02,220 –> 00:29:06,480
thought it was hilarious and very funny
710
00:29:04,080 –> 00:29:08,279
and everybody I floated it with was like
711
00:29:06,480 –> 00:29:12,299
oh my God that’s hilarious like play
712
00:29:08,279 –> 00:29:13,980
into it oh Nene no no no we went with
713
00:29:12,299 –> 00:29:15,419
victim
714
00:29:13,980 –> 00:29:18,240
but yeah I think that would have been
715
00:29:15,419 –> 00:29:19,500
well received but it was just so bizarre
716
00:29:18,240 –> 00:29:23,100
to see
717
00:29:19,500 –> 00:29:27,419
you know the CEO crying over this on
718
00:29:23,100 –> 00:29:30,419
Instagram it was it was just I mean
719
00:29:27,419 –> 00:29:33,000
Beyond bizarre and she basically got
720
00:29:30,419 –> 00:29:35,539
everyone to bully this person this you
721
00:29:33,000 –> 00:29:37,679
know unnamed person into
722
00:29:35,539 –> 00:29:39,659
canceling the order or like doing the
723
00:29:37,679 –> 00:29:42,299
right thing and returning the product is
724
00:29:39,659 –> 00:29:44,520
what she made it sound like hey so yeah
725
00:29:42,299 –> 00:29:46,679
they they spin their own narrative and
726
00:29:44,520 –> 00:29:51,240
maybe you disagree with me Nicola but I
727
00:29:46,679 –> 00:29:54,480
think that the CEO’s tactics are
728
00:29:51,240 –> 00:29:56,760
while they often are knee-jerk I think I
729
00:29:54,480 –> 00:29:59,640
think she is an emotion an emotionally
730
00:29:56,760 –> 00:30:01,620
manipulative person just in any
731
00:29:59,640 –> 00:30:05,159
situation so of course that’s going to
732
00:30:01,620 –> 00:30:07,320
come out in um you know in her work you
733
00:30:05,159 –> 00:30:10,440
you don’t leave yourself behind you know
734
00:30:07,320 –> 00:30:13,200
when you come to work there you are so I
735
00:30:10,440 –> 00:30:15,539
also think she’s very
736
00:30:13,200 –> 00:30:18,559
um used to playing the victim for
737
00:30:15,539 –> 00:30:18,559
monetary gain
738
00:30:18,960 –> 00:30:26,399
um agreed because her whole like soapbox
739
00:30:22,440 –> 00:30:28,380
is these products helped her yeah when
740
00:30:26,399 –> 00:30:31,200
she was going through her own struggles
741
00:30:28,380 –> 00:30:32,640
which they very well might have I’m not
742
00:30:31,200 –> 00:30:34,620
here to say they have or they haven’t
743
00:30:32,640 –> 00:30:36,020
I’m just saying at what point does that
744
00:30:34,620 –> 00:30:38,820
become
745
00:30:36,020 –> 00:30:40,500
capitalistic and especially be for the
746
00:30:38,820 –> 00:30:42,600
fact that I don’t believe they gave back
747
00:30:40,500 –> 00:30:44,240
much to the community if anything like
748
00:30:42,600 –> 00:30:48,840
they would donate
749
00:30:44,240 –> 00:30:48,840
boys back to the community none
750
00:30:52,700 –> 00:30:59,159
but it’s not the number that is touted
751
00:30:56,399 –> 00:31:01,140
and I can tell you that I never I I was
752
00:30:59,159 –> 00:31:03,059
I had access to their QuickBooks for
753
00:31:01,140 –> 00:31:06,120
purchase orders and I never saw anything
754
00:31:03,059 –> 00:31:08,640
while I was there going out they did
755
00:31:06,120 –> 00:31:11,640
donate excess inventory to like some
756
00:31:08,640 –> 00:31:14,580
homeless shelter but what
757
00:31:11,640 –> 00:31:17,700
um what homeless shelter needs these
758
00:31:14,580 –> 00:31:20,399
types of stationary items to get forward
759
00:31:17,700 –> 00:31:22,380
in Life or it was like a woman’s shelter
760
00:31:20,399 –> 00:31:23,399
it’s like when the woman’s Shelton was
761
00:31:22,380 –> 00:31:26,399
around
762
00:31:23,399 –> 00:31:28,140
um I think it was around abuse so I can
763
00:31:26,399 –> 00:31:30,600
see that can we just cause here for a
764
00:31:28,140 –> 00:31:32,700
second and remind people that if this
765
00:31:30,600 –> 00:31:34,860
podcast is something you enjoy we would
766
00:31:32,700 –> 00:31:37,140
love to hear from you you can find us on
767
00:31:34,860 –> 00:31:40,080
Instagram LinkedIn and YouTube at let’s
768
00:31:37,140 –> 00:31:42,120
break up toxic workplace stories sharing
769
00:31:40,080 –> 00:31:44,039
and subscribing really helps us feel
770
00:31:42,120 –> 00:31:47,279
validated okay what’s the next question
771
00:31:44,039 –> 00:31:50,039
Mr the other ceiling thing because there
772
00:31:47,279 –> 00:31:52,320
was there were two oh the person who
773
00:31:50,039 –> 00:31:54,480
didn’t get fired who’s actually oh my
774
00:31:52,320 –> 00:31:56,640
God I can’t okay that was literally the
775
00:31:54,480 –> 00:32:00,179
bane of my [ __ ] existence oh my God
776
00:31:56,640 –> 00:32:01,919
you couldn’t let that one go okay it
777
00:32:00,179 –> 00:32:04,260
makes me so angry
778
00:32:01,919 –> 00:32:06,620
the stealing in that particular instance
779
00:32:04,260 –> 00:32:09,779
was an employee
780
00:32:06,620 –> 00:32:12,440
who had a
781
00:32:09,779 –> 00:32:15,000
code or like a link that they could use
782
00:32:12,440 –> 00:32:17,940
for monetary game
783
00:32:15,000 –> 00:32:22,260
they had at the time they had access to
784
00:32:17,940 –> 00:32:26,460
the Instagram page and was every time we
785
00:32:22,260 –> 00:32:29,399
created content or whatever use their
786
00:32:26,460 –> 00:32:30,840
link on the main Instagram page so how
787
00:32:29,399 –> 00:32:33,720
much money do you think they got by
788
00:32:30,840 –> 00:32:35,880
doing that mystery guest what do you
789
00:32:33,720 –> 00:32:39,120
think the consensus is in general about
790
00:32:35,880 –> 00:32:41,580
this company with aware without us after
791
00:32:39,120 –> 00:32:43,559
saying anything on the podcast because
792
00:32:41,580 –> 00:32:48,059
you know I see
793
00:32:43,559 –> 00:32:51,179
from and maybe it’s just because I have
794
00:32:48,059 –> 00:32:54,000
chosen to like kind of jump ship I see a
795
00:32:51,179 –> 00:32:56,820
lot of people jumping chip and they’re
796
00:32:54,000 –> 00:32:58,200
um I’ve seen people offload like their
797
00:32:56,820 –> 00:33:00,659
entire collection because they’re like
798
00:32:58,200 –> 00:33:03,659
you know [ ] this [ ] like this is not
799
00:33:00,659 –> 00:33:06,120
okay I’m not gonna like continue to
800
00:33:03,659 –> 00:33:07,679
support a company like this
801
00:33:06,120 –> 00:33:10,080
um a lot of people are really not happy
802
00:33:07,679 –> 00:33:12,419
with the subscribe
803
00:33:10,080 –> 00:33:15,600
well that last one was straight up
804
00:33:12,419 –> 00:33:17,700
[ __ ] garbage I’m
805
00:33:15,600 –> 00:33:19,799
like I’ve seen Gina a
806
00:33:17,700 –> 00:33:21,419
PowerPoint presentation where I’d taken
807
00:33:19,799 –> 00:33:24,720
everything off Amazon that was identical
808
00:33:21,419 –> 00:33:27,960
and it came to like 109 bucks
809
00:33:24,720 –> 00:33:30,659
uh yeah well I
810
00:33:27,960 –> 00:33:33,120
saw the so I really liked in
811
00:33:30,659 –> 00:33:35,220
I like the scissors and that was it so I
812
00:33:33,120 –> 00:33:37,019
obviously did not get the box
813
00:33:35,220 –> 00:33:39,299
um but I found the scissors on Amazon
814
00:33:37,019 –> 00:33:41,460
and posted it to the wrong page and it
815
00:33:39,299 –> 00:33:42,779
immediately gotten taken down it was the
816
00:33:41,460 –> 00:33:48,480
Community page and not the buy sell
817
00:33:42,779 –> 00:33:48,480
trade page and they’re like uh yeah yeah
818
00:33:50,159 –> 00:33:54,179
one though that went out in March I
819
00:33:51,960 –> 00:33:57,179
don’t know if you’ve seen it uh oh yeah
820
00:33:54,179 –> 00:33:57,179
the
821
00:33:57,200 –> 00:34:01,679
in the like it wasn’t even in the Box it
822
00:34:00,480 –> 00:34:03,419
was like an afterthought like they
823
00:34:01,679 –> 00:34:05,340
forgot about the whole damn thing it was
824
00:34:03,419 –> 00:34:07,740
I’ve got my stuff
825
00:34:05,340 –> 00:34:09,300
um my my staff members
826
00:34:07,740 –> 00:34:13,440
um details up
827
00:34:09,300 –> 00:34:16,740
we went from earning a hundred dollars a
828
00:34:13,440 –> 00:34:18,960
month to 500 a month to one thousand
829
00:34:16,740 –> 00:34:22,619
dollars a month so it increasingly got
830
00:34:18,960 –> 00:34:24,659
more the more we used the code in the
831
00:34:22,619 –> 00:34:26,760
public space
832
00:34:24,659 –> 00:34:29,879
on the action so how much do you think
833
00:34:26,760 –> 00:34:32,460
was taken in total I I don’t know in
834
00:34:29,879 –> 00:34:33,899
total but I tried we called it pretty I
835
00:34:32,460 –> 00:34:36,599
feel like we called it quick it took us
836
00:34:33,899 –> 00:34:39,240
three months sure but but they didn’t
837
00:34:36,599 –> 00:34:40,619
fire that person no I requested that we
838
00:34:39,240 –> 00:34:42,419
did
839
00:34:40,619 –> 00:34:44,300
um and I said we need I’m sorry but
840
00:34:42,419 –> 00:34:49,200
that’s for me that’s
841
00:34:44,300 –> 00:34:51,659
hugely inappropriate you can’t use the
842
00:34:49,200 –> 00:34:54,359
social media for financial gain
843
00:34:51,659 –> 00:34:57,180
hugely inappropriate
844
00:34:54,359 –> 00:34:59,460
individual we don’t fire people except
845
00:34:57,180 –> 00:35:02,940
for Gina and I we don’t well because we
846
00:34:59,460 –> 00:35:04,320
don’t like conflict right that’s right I
847
00:35:02,940 –> 00:35:06,180
don’t have you
848
00:35:04,320 –> 00:35:08,880
heard like try to pursue a wrongful
849
00:35:06,180 –> 00:35:10,500
termination because in a lot of places I
850
00:35:08,880 –> 00:35:13,140
don’t know how it is in like New Zealand
851
00:35:10,500 –> 00:35:15,420
but if you don’t have to tell someone
852
00:35:13,140 –> 00:35:17,460
that you’re recording then it doesn’t
853
00:35:15,420 –> 00:35:19,380
matter what state also we discovered
854
00:35:17,460 –> 00:35:22,020
that because it’s on Zoom it notifies
855
00:35:19,380 –> 00:35:24,420
you yeah here’s the thing so like in
856
00:35:22,020 –> 00:35:28,140
Florida which is where the conversation
857
00:35:24,420 –> 00:35:30,000
was based from the U.S side you do have
858
00:35:28,140 –> 00:35:31,980
to say you do have to let the other
859
00:35:30,000 –> 00:35:33,720
party know right so because each state
860
00:35:31,980 –> 00:35:36,720
is different like in New York but it’s
861
00:35:33,720 –> 00:35:38,160
one party needs to know right yeah um
862
00:35:36,720 –> 00:35:41,280
and that party can be the person
863
00:35:38,160 –> 00:35:42,839
recording it so you don’t technically
864
00:35:41,280 –> 00:35:44,760
need to let the other person you’re
865
00:35:42,839 –> 00:35:46,500
recording know and it’s completely legal
866
00:35:44,760 –> 00:35:49,980
whereas in Florida both sides need to
867
00:35:46,500 –> 00:35:52,619
know okay on using that logic then yes
868
00:35:49,980 –> 00:35:53,700
Nicola shouldn’t should have been fired
869
00:35:52,619 –> 00:35:56,760
right
870
00:35:53,700 –> 00:35:59,760
um however there’s two things that we
871
00:35:56,760 –> 00:36:03,300
learned just by talking to people
872
00:35:59,760 –> 00:36:04,859
one if it was done on Zoom it does give
873
00:36:03,300 –> 00:36:07,320
you a notification like you have to say
874
00:36:04,859 –> 00:36:10,560
got it if it says we’re recording this
875
00:36:07,320 –> 00:36:13,740
number one number two because Nicola is
876
00:36:10,560 –> 00:36:16,020
a New Zealand citizen she’s governed by
877
00:36:13,740 –> 00:36:17,660
the rules of New Zealand not by the
878
00:36:16,020 –> 00:36:20,339
United States
879
00:36:17,660 –> 00:36:21,900
so technically she didn’t do anything
880
00:36:20,339 –> 00:36:23,640
wrong because in New Zealand it’s the
881
00:36:21,900 –> 00:36:24,599
same as like New York like you don’t
882
00:36:23,640 –> 00:36:27,060
need to tell anyone that you’re
883
00:36:24,599 –> 00:36:30,000
recording them yeah so we actually have
884
00:36:27,060 –> 00:36:32,579
a episode coming up in the future where
885
00:36:30,000 –> 00:36:34,859
we have an employment lawyer kind of
886
00:36:32,579 –> 00:36:37,260
gonna give us kind of listen to the
887
00:36:34,859 –> 00:36:39,300
podcasts and just ask us some questions
888
00:36:37,260 –> 00:36:41,040
with either of us I mean I don’t think
889
00:36:39,300 –> 00:36:42,780
either of us would pursue wrongful
890
00:36:41,040 –> 00:36:44,640
termination
891
00:36:42,780 –> 00:36:47,700
um because I think that the reason I was
892
00:36:44,640 –> 00:36:49,500
terminated was very flimsy like yeah oh
893
00:36:47,700 –> 00:36:51,420
you go against our core values well how
894
00:36:49,500 –> 00:36:52,980
can I go against core values that don’t
895
00:36:51,420 –> 00:36:53,760
make any sense and contradict one
896
00:36:52,980 –> 00:36:56,460
another
897
00:36:53,760 –> 00:36:58,500
um seems like you have a definitely
898
00:36:56,460 –> 00:37:00,720
strong case for wrongful termination
899
00:36:58,500 –> 00:37:02,339
well I think Nikola has a much stronger
900
00:37:00,720 –> 00:37:04,800
case than I do you know because
901
00:37:02,339 –> 00:37:06,839
technically I’m not well employee yeah
902
00:37:04,800 –> 00:37:09,180
but so we’re gonna have the lawyer come
903
00:37:06,839 –> 00:37:10,980
on and kind of tell us
904
00:37:09,180 –> 00:37:12,180
her take on it
905
00:37:10,980 –> 00:37:14,579
um I don’t think either of us will
906
00:37:12,180 –> 00:37:17,040
pursue anything like it’s not I think
907
00:37:14,579 –> 00:37:19,380
there’s no real reason to like
908
00:37:17,040 –> 00:37:21,300
no but but but but we are the very
909
00:37:19,380 –> 00:37:23,220
disgruntled employees oh it’s so
910
00:37:21,300 –> 00:37:25,440
disgruntled but you know we were talking
911
00:37:23,220 –> 00:37:27,720
about it earlier and you know yeah okay
912
00:37:25,440 –> 00:37:30,000
look I spend I’m I’m not gonna
913
00:37:27,720 –> 00:37:33,720
exaggerate the situation here I spent
914
00:37:30,000 –> 00:37:37,260
months depressed months because as I’ve
915
00:37:33,720 –> 00:37:39,920
said before my entire identity was tied
916
00:37:37,260 –> 00:37:44,400
up in this organization my online
917
00:37:39,920 –> 00:37:48,060
Persona my personal business my
918
00:37:44,400 –> 00:37:51,320
everything was tied up in this identity
919
00:37:48,060 –> 00:37:55,560
so to have lost my identity literally
920
00:37:51,320 –> 00:37:58,920
overnight without any opportunity to
921
00:37:55,560 –> 00:38:00,839
kind of get a handle on it and then work
922
00:37:58,920 –> 00:38:03,800
out what I was doing next
923
00:38:00,839 –> 00:38:07,859
where it was just like did to us
924
00:38:03,800 –> 00:38:11,520
overnight was huge and the trauma from
925
00:38:07,859 –> 00:38:14,640
that took months like honestly I didn’t
926
00:38:11,520 –> 00:38:16,740
post online for months I spent most of
927
00:38:14,640 –> 00:38:19,380
my time essentially with my therapist
928
00:38:16,740 –> 00:38:21,780
just crying into my pillow
929
00:38:19,380 –> 00:38:24,900
um and it was horrible it was absolutely
930
00:38:21,780 –> 00:38:27,960
horrible because I I lost trust in my
931
00:38:24,900 –> 00:38:29,579
ability I lost trust in pretty much
932
00:38:27,960 –> 00:38:31,500
anything because you know you’ve got to
933
00:38:29,579 –> 00:38:33,240
keep in mind that this had been going on
934
00:38:31,500 –> 00:38:36,300
for so long
935
00:38:33,240 –> 00:38:38,099
and I was getting up at like 3 A.M every
936
00:38:36,300 –> 00:38:40,920
morning so now not only that but my
937
00:38:38,099 –> 00:38:43,200
sleep routine is [ __ ] and now I’m
938
00:38:40,920 –> 00:38:45,960
waking up at 3am in like a flat Panic
939
00:38:43,200 –> 00:38:48,060
knowing that I’ve got nothing to do like
940
00:38:45,960 –> 00:38:50,480
there’s nothing that I have no purpose
941
00:38:48,060 –> 00:38:53,579
like no purpose
942
00:38:50,480 –> 00:38:55,800
and that was for like 48 hours straight
943
00:38:53,579 –> 00:38:58,079
and wasn’t and was so happy about it
944
00:38:55,800 –> 00:39:00,720
whereas I was the total opposite right
945
00:38:58,079 –> 00:39:02,520
because these were my brains these were
946
00:39:00,720 –> 00:39:05,760
people that I trusted these were people
947
00:39:02,520 –> 00:39:07,260
that I spent hours a day with and then
948
00:39:05,760 –> 00:39:10,200
all of a sudden
949
00:39:07,260 –> 00:39:11,160
I’m nobody I’m literally nothing to
950
00:39:10,200 –> 00:39:14,220
anyone
951
00:39:11,160 –> 00:39:17,220
no one watched that everyone was pretty
952
00:39:14,220 –> 00:39:20,400
confused because it’s someone who
953
00:39:17,220 –> 00:39:22,440
follows like all the Affiliates more
954
00:39:20,400 –> 00:39:24,900
closely than I do pointed out they’re
955
00:39:22,440 –> 00:39:26,220
like it seems like you know Nikola kind
956
00:39:24,900 –> 00:39:28,320
of fell off the face of the Earth and I
957
00:39:26,220 –> 00:39:30,480
thought like she was like best friends
958
00:39:28,320 –> 00:39:32,400
because they posted all the time and
959
00:39:30,480 –> 00:39:33,780
then like she just dropped off the face
960
00:39:32,400 –> 00:39:36,240
of the planet you know who’s best
961
00:39:33,780 –> 00:39:38,040
friends with that woman herself nobody
962
00:39:36,240 –> 00:39:41,040
loves her more than herself that’s her
963
00:39:38,040 –> 00:39:42,480
true best friend I mean that’s great you
964
00:39:41,040 –> 00:39:44,099
should absolutely love yourself but not
965
00:39:42,480 –> 00:39:47,160
at the detriment to other people who are
966
00:39:44,099 –> 00:39:49,980
helping you build your business so I I I
967
00:39:47,160 –> 00:39:52,560
I not and again I’m not here to [ __ ]
968
00:39:49,980 –> 00:39:54,599
strum my [ __ ] little violin but I’m
969
00:39:52,560 –> 00:39:56,760
sorry I deserved more respect than that
970
00:39:54,599 –> 00:39:58,980
I was the person that got you your first
971
00:39:56,760 –> 00:40:00,900
million dollar month yeah they don’t
972
00:39:58,980 –> 00:40:04,200
care Nicola that’s the bottom line they
973
00:40:00,900 –> 00:40:06,780
don’t care about it it’s like I did
974
00:40:04,200 –> 00:40:09,900
don’t care so much hard work to get you
975
00:40:06,780 –> 00:40:13,260
over those lines and to get that kind of
976
00:40:09,900 –> 00:40:14,880
stuff back in they don’t care you how do
977
00:40:13,260 –> 00:40:17,579
I mean nothing because they’re entitled
978
00:40:14,880 –> 00:40:19,440
they are entitled individuals this is
979
00:40:17,579 –> 00:40:21,720
just hurt I think at this point it’s
980
00:40:19,440 –> 00:40:24,180
like how could you do that to someone
981
00:40:21,720 –> 00:40:25,740
they’re entitled individuals because
982
00:40:24,180 –> 00:40:28,440
they’re all Christians and you know
983
00:40:25,740 –> 00:40:31,260
victims of whatever they’re victims of
984
00:40:28,440 –> 00:40:33,540
so victims I don’t know we were the
985
00:40:31,260 –> 00:40:35,640
bullies Gina please they’re victims of
986
00:40:33,540 –> 00:40:37,440
us oh yes I was told that I made people
987
00:40:35,640 –> 00:40:40,740
feel stupid I’m like well if you ask me
988
00:40:37,440 –> 00:40:42,780
16 times what DDP means and I’ve already
989
00:40:40,740 –> 00:40:44,220
explained it 16 times I’m probably going
990
00:40:42,780 –> 00:40:47,280
to be a little irritated like listen
991
00:40:44,220 –> 00:40:49,619
when I say it the first 16 times okay so
992
00:40:47,280 –> 00:40:51,839
the other thing that was like presented
993
00:40:49,619 –> 00:40:54,780
in the group and I don’t know much about
994
00:40:51,839 –> 00:40:57,119
it but it was the affiliate
995
00:40:54,780 –> 00:40:58,560
um I don’t remember I don’t know if you
996
00:40:57,119 –> 00:41:01,500
remember talking about this a little bit
997
00:40:58,560 –> 00:41:03,480
on Insta Nicola the affiliate program
998
00:41:01,500 –> 00:41:05,160
where they said it as ever since the
999
00:41:03,480 –> 00:41:06,900
sale where the company cut the own
1000
00:41:05,160 –> 00:41:08,460
Affiliates at the knees by offering a
1001
00:41:06,900 –> 00:41:10,800
discount worth the same amount as the
1002
00:41:08,460 –> 00:41:13,260
affiliate codes I know exactly and
1003
00:41:10,800 –> 00:41:15,300
that’s that was before my time right
1004
00:41:13,260 –> 00:41:17,460
yeah that was before your time and that
1005
00:41:15,300 –> 00:41:19,619
was so the CEO knew that we were
1006
00:41:17,460 –> 00:41:22,380
bleeding money and instead of again
1007
00:41:19,619 –> 00:41:24,480
looking at to where I had highlighted
1008
00:41:22,380 –> 00:41:27,599
where we were bleeding money which was
1009
00:41:24,480 –> 00:41:28,800
specifically shipping specifically and I
1010
00:41:27,599 –> 00:41:30,900
just also want to make it very clear
1011
00:41:28,800 –> 00:41:33,359
that there was no issues shipping
1012
00:41:30,900 –> 00:41:36,119
internationally we just had to better
1013
00:41:33,359 –> 00:41:39,540
work how we did it and we could ship
1014
00:41:36,119 –> 00:41:42,180
anywhere at a reasonable cost like
1015
00:41:39,540 –> 00:41:44,160
everybody else nobody took my
1016
00:41:42,180 –> 00:41:46,440
suggestions there right and they didn’t
1017
00:41:44,160 –> 00:41:49,339
take mine either so shipping was our big
1018
00:41:46,440 –> 00:41:53,040
issue right the shipping blade costs
1019
00:41:49,339 –> 00:41:58,020
that was to recoup the costs
1020
00:41:53,040 –> 00:42:00,480
of the shipping because the CEO didn’t
1021
00:41:58,020 –> 00:42:02,339
want to bleed any more money instead of
1022
00:42:00,480 –> 00:42:04,380
understanding that there’s a retail
1023
00:42:02,339 –> 00:42:08,099
calendar and a market marketing calendar
1024
00:42:04,380 –> 00:42:12,000
and they need to line up but planning in
1025
00:42:08,099 –> 00:42:14,160
advance it was really hard to instigate
1026
00:42:12,000 –> 00:42:16,380
that because I remember because I you
1027
00:42:14,160 –> 00:42:18,780
know I was an affiliate so can you
1028
00:42:16,380 –> 00:42:20,940
explain a little bit more about like
1029
00:42:18,780 –> 00:42:23,220
what exactly happened because I’m still
1030
00:42:20,940 –> 00:42:25,079
kind of confused I did not understand
1031
00:42:23,220 –> 00:42:29,040
that situation
1032
00:42:25,079 –> 00:42:30,839
um so essentially when you give when you
1033
00:42:29,040 –> 00:42:33,359
give an affiliate a code you give them
1034
00:42:30,839 –> 00:42:35,760
like a 10 code or whatever code that
1035
00:42:33,359 –> 00:42:40,500
they can then use with their customers
1036
00:42:35,760 –> 00:42:43,320
um to save on us having to pay the 10 in
1037
00:42:40,500 –> 00:42:46,200
commission to the Affiliates and the 10
1038
00:42:43,320 –> 00:42:49,140
to
1039
00:42:46,200 –> 00:42:51,780
um you know the discount of 10 on top of
1040
00:42:49,140 –> 00:42:54,540
that so essentially 20 right
1041
00:42:51,780 –> 00:42:56,400
why not just provide the 20 code and cut
1042
00:42:54,540 –> 00:42:58,319
the loss ourselves than having to pay
1043
00:42:56,400 –> 00:42:59,579
someone out well I I get it makes sense
1044
00:42:58,319 –> 00:43:02,160
I get what you’re saying not that it
1045
00:42:59,579 –> 00:43:03,359
makes sense like morally or from a
1046
00:43:02,160 –> 00:43:04,800
business standpoint you know we’ve
1047
00:43:03,359 –> 00:43:08,040
spoken about it before but a lot of it
1048
00:43:04,800 –> 00:43:10,079
was knee-jerk reaction so CEO didn’t
1049
00:43:08,040 –> 00:43:11,940
like something I had to hop to and make
1050
00:43:10,079 –> 00:43:14,160
it happen and I always did make it
1051
00:43:11,940 –> 00:43:15,839
happen there was never a time ever I
1052
00:43:14,160 –> 00:43:17,520
don’t think that I didn’t make something
1053
00:43:15,839 –> 00:43:19,140
happen
1054
00:43:17,520 –> 00:43:20,460
um but it became really it started
1055
00:43:19,140 –> 00:43:22,380
getting really tedious and really
1056
00:43:20,460 –> 00:43:24,599
challenging like closer to the end
1057
00:43:22,380 –> 00:43:26,300
because it was just constantly I was
1058
00:43:24,599 –> 00:43:28,980
begging for
1059
00:43:26,300 –> 00:43:31,560
warning like can we please plan things
1060
00:43:28,980 –> 00:43:34,079
out like months in advance because I
1061
00:43:31,560 –> 00:43:35,400
can’t keep being in this washing machine
1062
00:43:34,079 –> 00:43:39,319
of
1063
00:43:35,400 –> 00:43:42,359
3 A.M to 11 p.m working working working
1064
00:43:39,319 –> 00:43:45,900
literally no social life because I’m on
1065
00:43:42,359 –> 00:43:48,000
24 7. I mean I was just over it I was
1066
00:43:45,900 –> 00:43:50,579
just over being treated like [ __ ]
1067
00:43:48,000 –> 00:43:52,200
that was really what it was and not once
1068
00:43:50,579 –> 00:43:54,180
did anyone that I worked with ever say
1069
00:43:52,200 –> 00:43:57,540
thank you to me and I know that sounds
1070
00:43:54,180 –> 00:44:01,680
like Petty but I walked into a [ __ ]
1071
00:43:57,540 –> 00:44:03,359
drowning ship and I was trying to like a
1072
00:44:01,680 –> 00:44:05,460
sinking ship and I was trying to bail
1073
00:44:03,359 –> 00:44:07,980
everybody out and I was working really
1074
00:44:05,460 –> 00:44:10,380
hard and I was trying to make our
1075
00:44:07,980 –> 00:44:13,800
products better in multiple different
1076
00:44:10,380 –> 00:44:16,200
ways quality technique you know save
1077
00:44:13,800 –> 00:44:18,900
money whatever plan out further and not
1078
00:44:16,200 –> 00:44:20,819
once did anyone say you did a good job
1079
00:44:18,900 –> 00:44:22,619
and I made sure to tell my team that
1080
00:44:20,819 –> 00:44:24,839
they did a good job and I I don’t know
1081
00:44:22,619 –> 00:44:26,819
why it’s just that really disgusts me
1082
00:44:24,839 –> 00:44:27,960
like if someone’s working really hard
1083
00:44:26,819 –> 00:44:29,579
and you can see that they’re working
1084
00:44:27,960 –> 00:44:31,020
really hard just say hey I see that
1085
00:44:29,579 –> 00:44:32,880
you’re working hard just acknowledge it
1086
00:44:31,020 –> 00:44:34,800
it doesn’t even have to be Kudos like
1087
00:44:32,880 –> 00:44:36,480
just acknowledge it like that’s what a
1088
00:44:34,800 –> 00:44:39,180
normal human being with compassion would
1089
00:44:36,480 –> 00:44:41,460
do instead of being asked can you handle
1090
00:44:39,180 –> 00:44:43,859
it right well normally that but you like
1091
00:44:41,460 –> 00:44:47,220
put the company in a better position and
1092
00:44:43,859 –> 00:44:50,220
no one was like rightful nobody nobody
1093
00:44:47,220 –> 00:44:52,560
and I was trying to move them into the
1094
00:44:50,220 –> 00:44:54,900
correct like planning phase giving them
1095
00:44:52,560 –> 00:44:57,240
like information that they didn’t know
1096
00:44:54,900 –> 00:44:59,520
and one of the first things the CEO said
1097
00:44:57,240 –> 00:45:02,040
to me when I knew I was getting fired
1098
00:44:59,520 –> 00:45:03,780
was I learned so much from you yeah
1099
00:45:02,040 –> 00:45:07,020
[ __ ] I know you did because you know
1100
00:45:03,780 –> 00:45:08,940
0.00 about this industry any cpg
1101
00:45:07,020 –> 00:45:10,980
industry you don’t know anything because
1102
00:45:08,940 –> 00:45:13,079
you lack experience and that’s okay but
1103
00:45:10,980 –> 00:45:14,760
don’t be a [ __ ] coo all right what up
1104
00:45:13,079 –> 00:45:17,099
what else have you got now that we’ve
1105
00:45:14,760 –> 00:45:20,579
taken racing place
1106
00:45:17,099 –> 00:45:22,859
I’ve got two more questions uh and one’s
1107
00:45:20,579 –> 00:45:24,359
more out of like personal curiosity and
1108
00:45:22,859 –> 00:45:26,839
it doesn’t really have to do with
1109
00:45:24,359 –> 00:45:30,660
anything but uh
1110
00:45:26,839 –> 00:45:33,839
I’m here for it yeah if anyone wants to
1111
00:45:30,660 –> 00:45:36,240
make their own exact
1112
00:45:33,839 –> 00:45:38,339
please come and talk to us come and talk
1113
00:45:36,240 –> 00:45:40,920
to me I can go and also okay wait
1114
00:45:38,339 –> 00:45:43,079
rephrase that if anyone would like to
1115
00:45:40,920 –> 00:45:46,260
create the same
1116
00:45:43,079 –> 00:45:48,960
product yes
1117
00:45:46,260 –> 00:45:51,000
I can get you that same product all of
1118
00:45:48,960 –> 00:45:52,740
the material is readily available on the
1119
00:45:51,000 –> 00:45:55,800
market there is nothing special about
1120
00:45:52,740 –> 00:45:57,480
this the items that they sell no and
1121
00:45:55,800 –> 00:45:59,280
they act like they’ve reinvented the
1122
00:45:57,480 –> 00:46:04,200
wheel here because they truly believe
1123
00:45:59,280 –> 00:46:04,200
that they did we think back to that Gina
1124
00:46:04,440 –> 00:46:09,780
I do you do and I am going to couch the
1125
00:46:08,220 –> 00:46:15,020
gossip and then you can follow up with
1126
00:46:09,780 –> 00:46:17,880
it okay okay some of the products are
1127
00:46:15,020 –> 00:46:21,119
whoa I know what you’re saying some of
1128
00:46:17,880 –> 00:46:23,579
the products were um let’s call them
1129
00:46:21,119 –> 00:46:27,000
paper-based products yeah they had a
1130
00:46:23,579 –> 00:46:29,460
specific GSM to them which is not
1131
00:46:27,000 –> 00:46:31,980
actually the GSM that they are what GSM
1132
00:46:29,460 –> 00:46:37,140
are they Gina please do share
1133
00:46:31,980 –> 00:46:39,180
they’re 140 versus the standard 160. and
1134
00:46:37,140 –> 00:46:41,940
let me just say on the record
1135
00:46:39,180 –> 00:46:44,460
I that was not something the company did
1136
00:46:41,940 –> 00:46:46,500
the supplier did it
1137
00:46:44,460 –> 00:46:48,180
um unbeknownst to the company so it is
1138
00:46:46,500 –> 00:46:51,599
not the company’s fault
1139
00:46:48,180 –> 00:46:54,420
on in some senses but in other senses
1140
00:46:51,599 –> 00:46:58,260
if they had done proper QC giving enough
1141
00:46:54,420 –> 00:47:02,339
turn time we might have caught it
1142
00:46:58,260 –> 00:47:04,920
so once you find out about it would you
1143
00:47:02,339 –> 00:47:07,740
not then want to
1144
00:47:04,920 –> 00:47:11,579
right so when I found out about it I
1145
00:47:07,740 –> 00:47:13,079
went back to you apply it Factory no I
1146
00:47:11,579 –> 00:47:15,300
went back to the factory and I said hey
1147
00:47:13,079 –> 00:47:18,119
do you think this was just like an
1148
00:47:15,300 –> 00:47:20,819
accident like what happened you know
1149
00:47:18,119 –> 00:47:22,740
because like yeah there there’s a big
1150
00:47:20,819 –> 00:47:24,420
manufacturing facility you know there’s
1151
00:47:22,740 –> 00:47:26,160
lots of different types of material
1152
00:47:24,420 –> 00:47:28,079
laying around I could absolutely see how
1153
00:47:26,160 –> 00:47:29,760
something accidentally gets printed on
1154
00:47:28,079 –> 00:47:32,819
the machine and just bound or whatever
1155
00:47:29,760 –> 00:47:35,460
without them realizing it but I was met
1156
00:47:32,819 –> 00:47:37,140
with like how dare like they were just
1157
00:47:35,460 –> 00:47:38,880
like we’re not discussing this because
1158
00:47:37,140 –> 00:47:40,680
that’s live but meanwhile we had like
1159
00:47:38,880 –> 00:47:43,319
the caliper showing the weight of the
1160
00:47:40,680 –> 00:47:45,060
paper so I was like hey was it a mistake
1161
00:47:43,319 –> 00:47:48,480
like if it was a mistake totally fine
1162
00:47:45,060 –> 00:47:50,520
but are you doing this purposely
1163
00:47:48,480 –> 00:47:52,859
and I my feeling was they were doing it
1164
00:47:50,520 –> 00:47:55,980
purposely because they can save money
1165
00:47:52,859 –> 00:47:58,800
and price gouge us
1166
00:47:55,980 –> 00:48:01,079
because nothing was ever negotiated the
1167
00:47:58,800 –> 00:48:03,420
vendor would say it’s five dollars even
1168
00:48:01,079 –> 00:48:05,160
though it should really be two and we
1169
00:48:03,420 –> 00:48:06,359
would just say okay we would just accept
1170
00:48:05,160 –> 00:48:10,560
it
1171
00:48:06,359 –> 00:48:13,200
I’d be curious to know if since this
1172
00:48:10,560 –> 00:48:16,260
podcast if the organization has now made
1173
00:48:13,200 –> 00:48:18,240
everybody sign ndas in India
1174
00:48:16,260 –> 00:48:20,280
I doubt it because they don’t know their
1175
00:48:18,240 –> 00:48:21,920
ass from their elbow which is sad
1176
00:48:20,280 –> 00:48:25,200
because they could be great
1177
00:48:21,920 –> 00:48:30,839
yeah yeah all right what else have you
1178
00:48:25,200 –> 00:48:35,220
got babe so my last question uh no so
1179
00:48:30,839 –> 00:48:37,560
kind of caveat that the the only like
1180
00:48:35,220 –> 00:48:39,300
Innovative products that they seem to
1181
00:48:37,560 –> 00:48:40,680
have made that I can pick up the top of
1182
00:48:39,300 –> 00:48:43,440
my head
1183
00:48:40,680 –> 00:48:45,420
and
1184
00:48:43,440 –> 00:48:47,040
which they released like this last fall
1185
00:48:45,420 –> 00:48:50,460
which I’m pretty sure Gina you had a
1186
00:48:47,040 –> 00:48:52,619
hand in producing because those two I’ve
1187
00:48:50,460 –> 00:48:54,780
never seen anything else like it I can
1188
00:48:52,619 –> 00:48:56,280
you know you can’t say anywhere else but
1189
00:48:54,780 –> 00:48:59,099
everything else is like that was
1190
00:48:56,280 –> 00:49:01,680
entirely my idea yeah I love really from
1191
00:48:59,099 –> 00:49:03,780
start to finish I’m like
1192
00:49:01,680 –> 00:49:06,240
yeah that was great and there was like
1193
00:49:03,780 –> 00:49:08,040
there’s nothing else like it and people
1194
00:49:06,240 –> 00:49:09,599
wish they would do more things like that
1195
00:49:08,040 –> 00:49:12,540
but then they come out with these tiny
1196
00:49:09,599 –> 00:49:15,180
[ __ ] like
1197
00:49:12,540 –> 00:49:17,640
I don’t feel bad
1198
00:49:15,180 –> 00:49:19,079
so I would say that like that whole
1199
00:49:17,640 –> 00:49:20,579
collection I know there was an issue
1200
00:49:19,079 –> 00:49:21,839
with the
1201
00:49:20,579 –> 00:49:25,079
which
1202
00:49:21,839 –> 00:49:27,000
just to go on record was approved by the
1203
00:49:25,079 –> 00:49:29,220
creative director it was her final
1204
00:49:27,000 –> 00:49:31,380
Dimensions that were put into production
1205
00:49:29,220 –> 00:49:34,680
and she went back and tried to blame it
1206
00:49:31,380 –> 00:49:36,900
on me and the technical designer that we
1207
00:49:34,680 –> 00:49:38,579
contracted with when we were all in a
1208
00:49:36,900 –> 00:49:40,859
zoom meeting or a slack or whatever it
1209
00:49:38,579 –> 00:49:43,619
was and she okayed those final
1210
00:49:40,859 –> 00:49:46,200
Dimensions so if anyone Bears the onus
1211
00:49:43,619 –> 00:49:48,060
on that it’s her right she had the
1212
00:49:46,200 –> 00:49:51,180
sample she called out the dimensions we
1213
00:49:48,060 –> 00:49:54,060
made it exactly as she called it out so
1214
00:49:51,180 –> 00:49:56,880
there’s you know so anyway but that
1215
00:49:54,060 –> 00:49:58,619
whole collection was me and the
1216
00:49:56,880 –> 00:50:00,839
technical designer that I work with very
1217
00:49:58,619 –> 00:50:02,579
closely in day-to-day business she’s
1218
00:50:00,839 –> 00:50:04,740
amazing
1219
00:50:02,579 –> 00:50:06,420
figuring out how to make that come to
1220
00:50:04,740 –> 00:50:08,819
life
1221
00:50:06,420 –> 00:50:10,200
no other bags have they ever done had
1222
00:50:08,819 –> 00:50:12,900
that quality
1223
00:50:10,200 –> 00:50:15,079
no that’s all I’ll say and that was all
1224
00:50:12,900 –> 00:50:15,079
me
1225
00:50:15,660 –> 00:50:19,680
so good luck trying to do that again
1226
00:50:18,240 –> 00:50:21,480
um no they can do it again if anybody
1227
00:50:19,680 –> 00:50:23,940
wants to do it for themselves come and
1228
00:50:21,480 –> 00:50:27,960
talk to us yeah come talk to us yeah
1229
00:50:23,940 –> 00:50:32,099
well the uh the other um
1230
00:50:27,960 –> 00:50:35,640
holder that uh I think was on the your
1231
00:50:32,099 –> 00:50:37,440
business page that was posted people are
1232
00:50:35,640 –> 00:50:39,960
like dying to get that I don’t know if
1233
00:50:37,440 –> 00:50:43,319
it’ll ever like it won’t that was my
1234
00:50:39,960 –> 00:50:45,420
brain trials yeah yeah and it’s really
1235
00:50:43,319 –> 00:50:48,180
fun organizations that are interested in
1236
00:50:45,420 –> 00:50:51,720
making something similar please reach
1237
00:50:48,180 –> 00:50:54,119
out yeah there was a vegan leather one
1238
00:50:51,720 –> 00:50:57,300
um that I had worked on
1239
00:50:54,119 –> 00:50:59,220
um through my sources my vendors that I
1240
00:50:57,300 –> 00:51:01,500
use and
1241
00:50:59,220 –> 00:51:02,819
um that canvassy kind of twill one which
1242
00:51:01,500 –> 00:51:07,500
is the one I think you’re referring to
1243
00:51:02,819 –> 00:51:10,140
also was my brainchild come to life by
1244
00:51:07,500 –> 00:51:11,700
the technical designer I use
1245
00:51:10,140 –> 00:51:14,280
um and
1246
00:51:11,700 –> 00:51:16,380
she does she basically took my idea and
1247
00:51:14,280 –> 00:51:18,180
ran with it so it’s not even so much me
1248
00:51:16,380 –> 00:51:21,180
I just had the idea like the technical
1249
00:51:18,180 –> 00:51:21,900
designer did most the heavy lifting
1250
00:51:21,180 –> 00:51:24,660
um
1251
00:51:21,900 –> 00:51:26,940
and it’s an amazing product like we’re
1252
00:51:24,660 –> 00:51:29,640
gonna make something like that for my
1253
00:51:26,940 –> 00:51:32,400
company’s core collection because it’s
1254
00:51:29,640 –> 00:51:34,680
so useful like I’ve used it
1255
00:51:32,400 –> 00:51:36,079
um did you get a copy of it yet I don’t
1256
00:51:34,680 –> 00:51:40,440
know if we have one because you hate me
1257
00:51:36,079 –> 00:51:43,140
no I think I only have one I think yeah
1258
00:51:40,440 –> 00:51:45,300
no I only have one yeah we’ll send me
1259
00:51:43,140 –> 00:51:48,660
the one no
1260
00:51:45,300 –> 00:51:50,460
but anyway so like probably because the
1261
00:51:48,660 –> 00:51:52,380
price point was a little too high for
1262
00:51:50,460 –> 00:51:54,900
their liking but it would probably have
1263
00:51:52,380 –> 00:51:57,599
sold out oh for sure no it definitely
1264
00:51:54,900 –> 00:52:01,020
wouldn’t no people were very we need to
1265
00:51:57,599 –> 00:52:03,200
make red ones with flags on no that’s so
1266
00:52:01,020 –> 00:52:03,200
ugly
1267
00:52:03,420 –> 00:52:08,880
you could do like we can make something
1268
00:52:04,859 –> 00:52:11,460
cute yeah we I I I’m fully on board
1269
00:52:08,880 –> 00:52:12,960
though making the core product with a
1270
00:52:11,460 –> 00:52:14,520
red flag on the front
1271
00:52:12,960 –> 00:52:16,920
yeah like a little tiny embroidered red
1272
00:52:14,520 –> 00:52:19,619
flag in the corner I’m here for it yeah
1273
00:52:16,920 –> 00:52:21,359
yeah no people were very excited about
1274
00:52:19,619 –> 00:52:23,040
like Innovative products like that and
1275
00:52:21,359 –> 00:52:24,720
then they get these [ __ ] things that you
1276
00:52:23,040 –> 00:52:27,180
could literally find on Amazon and
1277
00:52:24,720 –> 00:52:29,520
they’re like right so we were told that
1278
00:52:27,180 –> 00:52:31,319
the items that were to be put into those
1279
00:52:29,520 –> 00:52:32,640
certain boxes should be no more than
1280
00:52:31,319 –> 00:52:35,460
three dollars
1281
00:52:32,640 –> 00:52:37,260
that’s so frustrating because the I mean
1282
00:52:35,460 –> 00:52:39,540
they they talk about the value being
1283
00:52:37,260 –> 00:52:41,819
like 200 plus dollars that’s stupid yes
1284
00:52:39,540 –> 00:52:43,619
if you’re buying one item off of Amazon
1285
00:52:41,819 –> 00:52:45,960
and adding it all up but when you’re
1286
00:52:43,619 –> 00:52:49,260
buying it in bulk of like 5 000 plus
1287
00:52:45,960 –> 00:52:50,880
there are pennies on the dollar yeah the
1288
00:52:49,260 –> 00:52:52,800
one subscription box the two
1289
00:52:50,880 –> 00:52:55,920
subscription boxes that I worked
1290
00:52:52,800 –> 00:52:59,040
tirelessly on were
1291
00:52:55,920 –> 00:53:00,780
the one that fit all the items perfectly
1292
00:52:59,040 –> 00:53:02,339
it had
1293
00:53:00,780 –> 00:53:05,280
it had
1294
00:53:02,339 –> 00:53:08,040
um in it it had do you know the one I’m
1295
00:53:05,280 –> 00:53:11,819
talking about yeah
1296
00:53:08,040 –> 00:53:14,700
yeah that was a correctly done box it
1297
00:53:11,819 –> 00:53:16,260
was totally cohesive the Box matched it
1298
00:53:14,700 –> 00:53:18,720
wasn’t too big it wasn’t too small we
1299
00:53:16,260 –> 00:53:20,460
reverse engineered that that carton so
1300
00:53:18,720 –> 00:53:23,400
it fit the goods so that they wouldn’t
1301
00:53:20,460 –> 00:53:25,140
be spilling out all over the place
1302
00:53:23,400 –> 00:53:27,780
um I’m sure they still did if they were
1303
00:53:25,140 –> 00:53:30,119
throwing it into a huge box
1304
00:53:27,780 –> 00:53:31,920
um but and then the next one I started
1305
00:53:30,119 –> 00:53:33,599
working on and I think that was the last
1306
00:53:31,920 –> 00:53:35,640
one that I think that was the last one
1307
00:53:33,599 –> 00:53:37,680
that anyone actually really liked all
1308
00:53:35,640 –> 00:53:41,160
right my last question
1309
00:53:37,680 –> 00:53:43,680
um is what are your like pop word red
1310
00:53:41,160 –> 00:53:45,839
flags because I definitely have mine
1311
00:53:43,680 –> 00:53:47,220
that I look for when I like see a
1312
00:53:45,839 –> 00:53:49,260
company or new products that I’m like
1313
00:53:47,220 –> 00:53:50,940
okay maybe this like there’s got to be
1314
00:53:49,260 –> 00:53:52,740
something wrong here
1315
00:53:50,940 –> 00:53:57,180
um one being
1316
00:53:52,740 –> 00:53:59,880
the companies that name has I
1317
00:53:57,180 –> 00:54:03,240
immediately like wait where did that
1318
00:53:59,880 –> 00:54:06,540
come from that but it seems like every
1319
00:54:03,240 –> 00:54:08,700
company I come across the name
1320
00:54:06,540 –> 00:54:10,760
tends to be problematic
1321
00:54:08,700 –> 00:54:10,760
um
1322
00:54:11,040 –> 00:54:16,740
staying yeah and then all of in June
1323
00:54:14,520 –> 00:54:19,200
which is a nail polish company
1324
00:54:16,740 –> 00:54:22,680
is another one they were in some hot
1325
00:54:19,200 –> 00:54:25,800
water for some like very nice things
1326
00:54:22,680 –> 00:54:27,780
that the CEO had said yeah
1327
00:54:25,800 –> 00:54:30,359
um and then not like paying their
1328
00:54:27,780 –> 00:54:33,420
influencers or Affiliates properly and
1329
00:54:30,359 –> 00:54:36,960
all this other junk which okay that’s so
1330
00:54:33,420 –> 00:54:39,780
interesting to our like boss babe and
1331
00:54:36,960 –> 00:54:41,880
girl boss it see I’m all for like female
1332
00:54:39,780 –> 00:54:43,680
empowerment and all this other stuff
1333
00:54:41,880 –> 00:54:46,200
like you know
1334
00:54:43,680 –> 00:54:48,000
um you know women being bosses or
1335
00:54:46,200 –> 00:54:50,160
whatever but it seems like
1336
00:54:48,000 –> 00:54:53,280
if people are like just throwing those
1337
00:54:50,160 –> 00:54:56,040
words around they’re creating a
1338
00:54:53,280 –> 00:54:58,500
like toxic like problematic environment
1339
00:54:56,040 –> 00:55:01,500
for either their employees or their
1340
00:54:58,500 –> 00:55:03,180
customers and then uh it’s like the
1341
00:55:01,500 –> 00:55:06,240
whole you can sit with us you can be a
1342
00:55:03,180 –> 00:55:09,900
part of our group thing and they tend to
1343
00:55:06,240 –> 00:55:13,680
be more uh exclusive than they are
1344
00:55:09,900 –> 00:55:15,980
inclusive Visionary than engaging
1345
00:55:13,680 –> 00:55:18,780
yes yes
1346
00:55:15,980 –> 00:55:21,119
those are yours those are yeah those are
1347
00:55:18,780 –> 00:55:24,119
it for you know for now anyway those are
1348
00:55:21,119 –> 00:55:27,720
the ones I want to know yours I think
1349
00:55:24,119 –> 00:55:30,480
mine is family owned I think the second
1350
00:55:27,720 –> 00:55:31,980
one is non-funded startup which there
1351
00:55:30,480 –> 00:55:33,960
could be a case to say that my company
1352
00:55:31,980 –> 00:55:35,760
is toxic but I don’t think so because I
1353
00:55:33,960 –> 00:55:37,980
just like we’ve made it toxic for
1354
00:55:35,760 –> 00:55:40,079
ourselves is what you and I you and I
1355
00:55:37,980 –> 00:55:43,859
are like a toxic parent we’ve made a
1356
00:55:40,079 –> 00:55:45,480
toxic but to everyone else no but I
1357
00:55:43,859 –> 00:55:48,780
think on the whole I don’t think that’s
1358
00:55:45,480 –> 00:55:50,880
normal I think because I’m I’m like so
1359
00:55:48,780 –> 00:55:52,500
hands off like I sometimes I don’t speak
1360
00:55:50,880 –> 00:55:55,680
to my employees for days on an end
1361
00:55:52,500 –> 00:55:57,059
except Nicola you and I oh my God we
1362
00:55:55,680 –> 00:55:58,619
spend so much time together I’m so sick
1363
00:55:57,059 –> 00:56:01,980
of your face it’s ridiculous but anyway
1364
00:55:58,619 –> 00:56:04,800
okay so family-owned non-funded startup
1365
00:56:01,980 –> 00:56:06,480
um there was another one I had
1366
00:56:04,800 –> 00:56:07,980
um okay come back to me those are my
1367
00:56:06,480 –> 00:56:09,300
those are my first two I can’t think of
1368
00:56:07,980 –> 00:56:14,040
the third one but it’s like on the tip
1369
00:56:09,300 –> 00:56:16,800
of my tongue I am 100 very skeptical of
1370
00:56:14,040 –> 00:56:19,200
any organization the green washers so
1371
00:56:16,800 –> 00:56:21,000
anything that’s environmentally friendly
1372
00:56:19,200 –> 00:56:22,260
there’s no such thing nothing is
1373
00:56:21,000 –> 00:56:24,599
environmentally friendly so it’s
1374
00:56:22,260 –> 00:56:27,540
environmentally responsible
1375
00:56:24,599 –> 00:56:29,760
um or environmentally you know just
1376
00:56:27,540 –> 00:56:31,680
don’t green well I just I just want to
1377
00:56:29,760 –> 00:56:34,140
say something though like in America and
1378
00:56:31,680 –> 00:56:35,540
maybe our history guests can back me up
1379
00:56:34,140 –> 00:56:38,160
on this
1380
00:56:35,540 –> 00:56:41,099
we use the word environmentally friendly
1381
00:56:38,160 –> 00:56:43,559
or eco-conscious right and it’s just
1382
00:56:41,099 –> 00:56:46,079
like our vernacular I don’t believe it’s
1383
00:56:43,559 –> 00:56:48,300
I know the vernacular the vernacular
1384
00:56:46,079 –> 00:56:50,520
though is is probably problematic
1385
00:56:48,300 –> 00:56:52,559
because it’s it’s green washing that’s
1386
00:56:50,520 –> 00:56:55,020
all it is is you’re just like I’ll slap
1387
00:56:52,559 –> 00:56:56,660
a label I’ll slap eco-friendly on
1388
00:56:55,020 –> 00:56:59,280
everything yeah because
1389
00:56:56,660 –> 00:57:00,480
you can use those words like willy-nilly
1390
00:56:59,280 –> 00:57:01,440
and I mean you could say it about
1391
00:57:00,480 –> 00:57:04,079
anything
1392
00:57:01,440 –> 00:57:06,059
yeah right but I don’t think those words
1393
00:57:04,079 –> 00:57:10,880
in themselves are problematic if you
1394
00:57:06,059 –> 00:57:10,880
have actual proof to back it up like yes
1395
00:57:11,300 –> 00:57:16,160
or whatever like awesome
1396
00:57:16,819 –> 00:57:22,559
outside of the United States it’s much
1397
00:57:19,920 –> 00:57:24,720
more prevalent to say environmentally
1398
00:57:22,559 –> 00:57:26,579
what do you guys say environmentally
1399
00:57:24,720 –> 00:57:28,800
environmentally responsible or
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00:57:26,579 –> 00:57:30,180
environmentally responsible yeah I don’t
1401
00:57:28,800 –> 00:57:33,420
think that’s really in the American
1402
00:57:30,180 –> 00:57:35,940
vernacular so I think that might just be
1403
00:57:33,420 –> 00:57:37,680
cultural but I understand what you’re
1404
00:57:35,940 –> 00:57:40,160
saying yeah
1405
00:57:37,680 –> 00:57:43,619
um so it’s me that’s a that’s a big
1406
00:57:40,160 –> 00:57:46,319
riddle flag like I’m the first to point
1407
00:57:43,619 –> 00:57:48,599
out issues but I also like overall I
1408
00:57:46,319 –> 00:57:50,760
don’t think like I don’t think they set
1409
00:57:48,599 –> 00:57:53,099
out to be what they ended up being and
1410
00:57:50,760 –> 00:57:54,900
that’s sad right for them like I don’t
1411
00:57:53,099 –> 00:57:58,140
think their intentions
1412
00:57:54,900 –> 00:57:59,640
were to end up where they are now
1413
00:57:58,140 –> 00:58:02,280
yeah
1414
00:57:59,640 –> 00:58:04,380
and like that must be sad for the CEO
1415
00:58:02,280 –> 00:58:05,760
but then again on the other hand it’s
1416
00:58:04,380 –> 00:58:08,280
like
1417
00:58:05,760 –> 00:58:09,599
there was no pause to actually look
1418
00:58:08,280 –> 00:58:11,700
inward
1419
00:58:09,599 –> 00:58:14,819
right there was never a pause to look
1420
00:58:11,700 –> 00:58:17,940
Inward and say maybe I’m the problem
1421
00:58:14,819 –> 00:58:20,520
maybe my employees aren’t happy you know
1422
00:58:17,940 –> 00:58:21,540
what can I do do I know my employees
1423
00:58:20,520 –> 00:58:24,420
like
1424
00:58:21,540 –> 00:58:26,339
you know do I know what’s going on in
1425
00:58:24,420 –> 00:58:28,559
the heart of my business and I don’t
1426
00:58:26,339 –> 00:58:31,020
think they did there was never that
1427
00:58:28,559 –> 00:58:33,540
ability to form like compassion for
1428
00:58:31,020 –> 00:58:37,140
individuals because everything was so
1429
00:58:33,540 –> 00:58:40,020
reactionary so I think startup
1430
00:58:37,140 –> 00:58:43,859
startup family owned and start up with
1431
00:58:40,020 –> 00:58:46,200
no funding and also I think anyone who
1432
00:58:43,859 –> 00:58:49,140
has like a mission statement that is
1433
00:58:46,200 –> 00:58:50,339
like so absolute
1434
00:58:49,140 –> 00:58:52,260
yeah
1435
00:58:50,339 –> 00:58:54,480
because like their mission statement was
1436
00:58:52,260 –> 00:58:56,460
and it was very targeted so actually let
1437
00:58:54,480 –> 00:58:58,500
me rephrase that a mission statement is
1438
00:58:56,460 –> 00:59:01,440
that that is very targeted
1439
00:58:58,500 –> 00:59:02,640
so targeted that you to the exclusion of
1440
00:59:01,440 –> 00:59:03,780
all else
1441
00:59:02,640 –> 00:59:05,099
yeah
1442
00:59:03,780 –> 00:59:07,140
yeah
1443
00:59:05,099 –> 00:59:09,180
I think those would be my red flags
1444
00:59:07,140 –> 00:59:11,819
overall and also
1445
00:59:09,180 –> 00:59:13,559
be aware of what’s going on in your
1446
00:59:11,819 –> 00:59:15,720
interviewing process
1447
00:59:13,559 –> 00:59:17,460
there was [ __ ] ton of red flags in my
1448
00:59:15,720 –> 00:59:18,540
interviewing process I just was like oh
1449
00:59:17,460 –> 00:59:21,000
they’re small they don’t know what
1450
00:59:18,540 –> 00:59:22,740
they’re doing like I can fix this you
1451
00:59:21,000 –> 00:59:26,040
know but also be honest with yourself
1452
00:59:22,740 –> 00:59:29,280
about your flaws like my flaws are that
1453
00:59:26,040 –> 00:59:31,559
I can sometimes be ego driven
1454
00:59:29,280 –> 00:59:34,799
um you know I did start gossiping out of
1455
00:59:31,559 –> 00:59:36,960
frustration which is not okay
1456
00:59:34,799 –> 00:59:39,299
um you know have the same wherewithal to
1457
00:59:36,960 –> 00:59:40,980
look within yourself and say what was my
1458
00:59:39,299 –> 00:59:43,200
part in this
1459
00:59:40,980 –> 00:59:45,839
that that would be sort of where I land
1460
00:59:43,200 –> 00:59:48,180
with that mystery guest Nicholas Frozen
1461
00:59:45,839 –> 00:59:51,839
yeah
1462
00:59:48,180 –> 00:59:53,160
yeah you’re Frozen sorry am I back yeah
1463
00:59:51,839 –> 00:59:55,980
all right what else do you have for us
1464
00:59:53,160 –> 01:00:00,000
mystery that is all I
1465
00:59:55,980 –> 01:00:01,319
okay yeah well we well we thank you for
1466
01:00:00,000 –> 01:00:04,380
this
1467
01:00:01,319 –> 01:00:06,299
conversation yeah thank you for asking
1468
01:00:04,380 –> 01:00:08,819
or answering uh you know my burning
1469
01:00:06,299 –> 01:00:12,059
questions not all of them were mine but
1470
01:00:08,819 –> 01:00:15,180
but I think
1471
01:00:12,059 –> 01:00:18,000
the community’s questions so
1472
01:00:15,180 –> 01:00:20,579
how I just have a my own personal
1473
01:00:18,000 –> 01:00:22,020
question to you as a representative of
1474
01:00:20,579 –> 01:00:25,020
the community
1475
01:00:22,020 –> 01:00:27,480
when you heard the first couple episodes
1476
01:00:25,020 –> 01:00:29,819
where we specifically talked about our
1477
01:00:27,480 –> 01:00:32,760
situation and you put the you know you
1478
01:00:29,819 –> 01:00:35,520
connected the dots what was your feeling
1479
01:00:32,760 –> 01:00:39,960
like were you like like how did you
1480
01:00:35,520 –> 01:00:42,240
react to that I was like oh you know it
1481
01:00:39,960 –> 01:00:45,299
just made a lot of sense to me
1482
01:00:42,240 –> 01:00:48,599
um and then I was like uh
1483
01:00:45,299 –> 01:00:52,440
there’s no way I can like continue to
1484
01:00:48,599 –> 01:00:54,359
buy this like product and it kind of
1485
01:00:52,440 –> 01:00:56,460
just shattered that
1486
01:00:54,359 –> 01:00:57,660
I don’t know that glass box I felt like
1487
01:00:56,460 –> 01:01:00,240
I was in
1488
01:00:57,660 –> 01:01:02,339
um where everything was like shiny and
1489
01:01:00,240 –> 01:01:03,299
like because they create like like that
1490
01:01:02,339 –> 01:01:05,880
cult
1491
01:01:03,299 –> 01:01:08,579
environment in their customer base where
1492
01:01:05,880 –> 01:01:11,099
like you have to have everything you you
1493
01:01:08,579 –> 01:01:13,859
know and it’s like for what it’s like
1494
01:01:11,099 –> 01:01:15,720
it’s a [ __ ]
1495
01:01:13,859 –> 01:01:17,280
I don’t need this [ __ ] and like there
1496
01:01:15,720 –> 01:01:19,140
are other companies like I already have
1497
01:01:17,280 –> 01:01:21,960
like an abundance of stuff because
1498
01:01:19,140 –> 01:01:24,960
they’ve like instilled this Panic buying
1499
01:01:21,960 –> 01:01:26,880
that I have definitely bought into
1500
01:01:24,960 –> 01:01:29,700
um to like where I need all this stuff
1501
01:01:26,880 –> 01:01:31,020
and it’s like I you know I don’t need
1502
01:01:29,700 –> 01:01:34,140
this anymore
1503
01:01:31,020 –> 01:01:36,299
right as a like as a consumer as a
1504
01:01:34,140 –> 01:01:37,740
customer so that was kind of thing that
1505
01:01:36,299 –> 01:01:40,079
was and how do you how do you how do you
1506
01:01:37,740 –> 01:01:43,260
feel now after this conversation I mean
1507
01:01:40,079 –> 01:01:45,720
I think I I’m still stand where I’m at
1508
01:01:43,260 –> 01:01:48,119
like I definitely don’t want to
1509
01:01:45,720 –> 01:01:50,400
buy from them anymore does it make more
1510
01:01:48,119 –> 01:01:53,160
sense now though like a little oh it
1511
01:01:50,400 –> 01:01:56,819
makes it to why things are the way they
1512
01:01:53,160 –> 01:01:58,859
are yeah it makes a ton of sense
1513
01:01:56,819 –> 01:02:00,299
okay do you think we’re disgruntled
1514
01:01:58,859 –> 01:02:03,119
employees
1515
01:02:00,299 –> 01:02:05,819
no I don’t I don’t think we are either
1516
01:02:03,119 –> 01:02:09,119
no there was one person who commented
1517
01:02:05,819 –> 01:02:12,720
that said uh because we there was a
1518
01:02:09,119 –> 01:02:14,940
discussion in that Facebook group where
1519
01:02:12,720 –> 01:02:16,500
um we kind of everyone had kind of come
1520
01:02:14,940 –> 01:02:18,720
together and said you know there was it
1521
01:02:16,500 –> 01:02:20,579
made sense and there was one person who
1522
01:02:18,720 –> 01:02:22,920
listened and said it just sounds like
1523
01:02:20,579 –> 01:02:25,260
you know they’re just kind of bitching
1524
01:02:22,920 –> 01:02:27,000
about their former employer
1525
01:02:25,260 –> 01:02:29,339
um I don’t think I’m gonna get listen to
1526
01:02:27,000 –> 01:02:33,200
the third or second episode I can
1527
01:02:29,339 –> 01:02:33,200
remember which one but sure
1528
01:02:33,359 –> 01:02:37,140
everything really started to come
1529
01:02:35,339 –> 01:02:39,599
together after like that second and
1530
01:02:37,140 –> 01:02:42,660
third episode I’m like okay no they’re
1531
01:02:39,599 –> 01:02:44,460
not just gossiping this really is toxic
1532
01:02:42,660 –> 01:02:46,200
like I can’t believe some of this stuff
1533
01:02:44,460 –> 01:02:48,540
happened and you got you know technical
1534
01:02:46,200 –> 01:02:51,359
about it and it made a ton of sense and
1535
01:02:48,540 –> 01:02:52,559
as someone who’s getting ready to you
1536
01:02:51,359 –> 01:02:54,059
know I’m a stay-at-home mom right now
1537
01:02:52,559 –> 01:02:56,400
but is someone who’s getting ready to
1538
01:02:54,059 –> 01:02:57,660
re-enter the workforce um in the next
1539
01:02:56,400 –> 01:03:01,319
couple years
1540
01:02:57,660 –> 01:03:01,859
it kind of helps me look out for things
1541
01:03:01,319 –> 01:03:04,200
um
1542
01:03:01,859 –> 01:03:08,099
you know what to look for and the
1543
01:03:04,200 –> 01:03:11,400
episode you had with uh Joanna
1544
01:03:08,099 –> 01:03:14,280
um about introverts really spoke to me
1545
01:03:11,400 –> 01:03:17,460
because I am definitely introverted but
1546
01:03:14,280 –> 01:03:19,319
I I really resonated with a lot of the
1547
01:03:17,460 –> 01:03:22,020
things that she said that was a great
1548
01:03:19,319 –> 01:03:23,760
episode she was like so knowledgeable
1549
01:03:22,020 –> 01:03:26,059
and
1550
01:03:23,760 –> 01:03:30,000
like she’s my girl crush I feel like
1551
01:03:26,059 –> 01:03:31,619
yeah that’s great we actually we took
1552
01:03:30,000 –> 01:03:34,200
way more time than I think we thought
1553
01:03:31,619 –> 01:03:36,000
about your time yeah I really appreciate
1554
01:03:34,200 –> 01:03:38,280
you sticking with us because I know we
1555
01:03:36,000 –> 01:03:40,140
CH we kind of just like went off on the
1556
01:03:38,280 –> 01:03:42,059
certain things I also feel like we
1557
01:03:40,140 –> 01:03:44,880
bitched a little bit maybe we need to
1558
01:03:42,059 –> 01:03:47,099
reflect on that no I I’m here for it you
1559
01:03:44,880 –> 01:03:48,960
know I’m here for the gossip because my
1560
01:03:47,099 –> 01:03:51,000
life’s pretty like Wolverine as a state
1561
01:03:48,960 –> 01:03:55,500
yeah it’s always good gossip that’s not
1562
01:03:51,000 –> 01:03:57,780
yours right yeah yeah no I tried to like
1563
01:03:55,500 –> 01:03:59,700
yeah I try to phrase things to where I
1564
01:03:57,780 –> 01:04:02,160
was like not like a bitching like
1565
01:03:59,700 –> 01:04:06,240
customer in to where it like tied into
1566
01:04:02,160 –> 01:04:09,180
the you know yeah thanks for having me
1567
01:04:06,240 –> 01:04:11,359
yeah it was exciting do you have any
1568
01:04:09,180 –> 01:04:11,359
questions
1569
01:04:15,319 –> 01:04:19,859
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1570
01:04:18,119 –> 01:04:22,380
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01:04:19,859 –> 01:04:24,059
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1572
01:04:22,380 –> 01:04:25,740
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1573
01:04:24,059 –> 01:04:28,020
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1574
01:04:25,740 –> 01:04:29,520
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01:04:28,020 –> 01:04:31,920
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01:04:29,520 –> 01:04:36,140
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